Yellow Face isn’t okay, not on stage, not on Halloween and not in film – and yes that includes porn. So if you are going to have any hand in creating a porn “parody” of smash hit show that has a fan favorite character who is Korean American, hiring a white actor taping his eyes back and smearing what looks like cheeto dust on his face is just not going to sit well with people.
People will be upset because it’s racist mockery of Asian features and if there’s one group that doesn’t have options when it comes to porn its Asian Americans. Continue reading →
And I’m still not so good at this, but experience is always fulfilling and this blog is a wonderful way to chart my own growth. I went back and read every post. You can really see my attitude become more and more positive toward sex. I went from going OMG sex toys are CRAZY to … I wonder how hot I would look with this jeweled butt plug in. So I’m still here , still growing, still changing and thank you for hanging with me along the ride.
This Exxxotica was rough, and not just because I had out-of-date malfunctioning equipment, a lung infection and serious case of stage fright – the entire state was fresh out of a state of emergency Post- Hurricane Sandy.
There is a widget in the sidebar for donations, and you can still donate in all of the regular ways. Anyone who donates over $50 dollars will get 15 min cam date with ME!
If you want to know what these donations will go towards, mostly it will be for transportation. I also plan on making 2-3 short videos that will be dealing with Body Acceptance and Sexuality, Asian American Masculinity and Women of Color and Sexual Self Identity.
I want to conduct better interviews with better equipment. I’ve always been using a 40 dollar mic, and a tiny point and shoot HD cam which has been working but I want to step it up! I want to be able to do interviews on and off site with better lighting and a nicer background. I also would love to be able to podcast interviews and news stories. I’m a journalist at heart and there’s no denying it. I want to bring high quality content that will have the ability to better discuss important topics.
If you want to see some of the products that I would like for BlasianBytch.com check out my Audiovisual Wishlist on Amazon.
I also want to give my readers a chance to ask their favorite adult star a question so If you have a question you would like answered submit it and the name of the performer you want me to ask it to on NjailaRhee.com. Questions that are out right disrespectful will be ignored and for the love of all that is holy don’t ask me to show anyone your penis.
Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.
On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere. There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.
While I was sick about 2 months ago someone left a pretty interesting comment on one of my toy reviews. It was pretty interesting so I’ll lend my two cents.
“Hey N’Jaila, I was wondering what is your take on racism in escort communities. Sorry this isn’t on topic relative to the review, but I’ve been trying to google it since my friend was talking to me about the “no black men” policy some escorts have. I even read a blog post from a white escort, and while I know women are entitled to do what they want with their bodies and to keep themselves safe, especially in that line of work, it just seems all kind of wrong to me. I mean, we don’t even need anti-miscegenation laws or the sometimes seen lynch mobs anymore b/c people self-select, and in very predictable ways, on and off line. In blatantly racist ways. It’s just something I’ve been thinking about b/c I’ve considered escort work and it’s difficult to navigate this troubling dynamic. And of course as a black escort I’m worried if I could even make a living. Cause the discrimination goes both ways, I’d imagine white escorts get the most business in spite of age and appearance at time. Oh and I realize you may not know much about escort side of work, but it’d still like to hear based on your experience, especially as a woman of color.” Continue reading →
An Asian American frist you won’t be reading about on AngryAsianMan, Japanese American and BBW superstar Kelly Shibari has been announced as the newest “Fleshlight girl”. While Kelly is the fourth Asian American porn starlet to have her mouth, vag and booty-hole molded and kept for prosperity, she is the frist BBW. Continue reading →
Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product contests, giveways, and sex toy reviews that were posted and submitted approximately between June 10th and June 24th. If you like what you see consider following the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates on further editions.
This is the Lia Pleaser 2 it looks like a octopus leg. There’s really no getting around it. If you are going to fuck yourself with the Lia Pleaser 2 you have to make peace with the fact you and maybe a partner will be giving your vaggoo the once around with sea creature appendage. Tentacles aren’t for unsuspecting Japanese teenagers anymore! Continue reading →
Because everyone has been so amazing with my recovery I wanted to give something back. I’m happy to annouce that Blasianbytch.com is teaming up with UK’s sexy lingerie erotic and online retailer AnnSummers.com to give my readers a lovely treat. 40 pounds of Sex! or at least £40 of Foreplay essentials. The package will include tantalizing edible body paint, exotic lubes and other delights. I’m giving away a gift bag of pleasure! All you have to do is leave a comment, send a tweet or anything else to earn points with the lovely little widget below. The more you share the more entries in the contest and which increases your chances of winning! The contest will run for 30 days so have fun guys!
the gift bag includes 10 items including:
edible foreplay paints
adult books a Rafflecopter giveaway
Feel free to share the contest with your friends, if they win maybe you’ll still get to use the prizes.
As some of you noticed posts were slow the last two months. I do apologize, I fell ill and then got a little more, and a more still. Things were looking a bit bleak, luckily for me I’m no longer a freelancer with no health insurance – even though I sometimes still think like one. A few trips to the ER and some doctors offices and I can breath again, dance again and enjoy life. Actually I’ve been going on a living spree as of late, but I haven’t forgotten about my writing and this blog. I’m still very committed to it. New posts are coming, though they may be a bit dated and I’m always writing new things.
Thank you for your patience with me as I recovered and celebrated,
This month’s toy is the Wild Orgasm Pierced Flicker 2, its an update of the more basic Wild Orgams Wild Orchid Vibe. This is not Charlotte’s rabbit, this is the rabbit that bend you over the sink in the dingy bathroom in the middle of a punk show. Its won’t be gentle and you shouldn’t want it any other way. This is a interesting toy with a lot going on with it so let me give you the skinny. Continue reading →