This is a sentence that someone has actually uttered to me in the last 24 hours. When I questioned this man, who is 32 years old and married, about if he really believed what he said he defensively amended his statement to – “women don’t need sex as much as men.”
My response- “ Tell that to my throbbing pussy because she’s telling me that not only do I need some sex I should be getting it rather soon.”
He looked at me rather shocked at first then started to explain that I was abnormal and making inquiries as to if I was molested as a young child. Seriously? In 2010 a woman that acknowledges her need and want for sexual gratification has to be a victim of child abuse?
How about I just like to cum? Straight up, just like any other man or woman. This shouldn’t be a shocker, I mean women are multi orgasmic. You know what I want to do as soon as I cum, cum again – but harder. It’s the way I and every other woman is built.
My chum is educated, yet decided that Maslow’s hierarchy of needs only applied to men. As I recalled, the need for sex was right there next to sleep, breathing, excreting and food. Yes, women do need sex!
To be frank my vagina and I are pretty in tune with each other. While I’m not going to let her call all the shots she keeps me very aware of how much I want to get fucked. This doesn’t make me perverted just a normal functioning human being. I know exactly why men choose to believe that women don’t need sex. Sex has become a commodity and women aren’t equal partners in the trade.
Think about it , can women buy sex from a man as readily as a man can buy sex from a woman? Hell no. While we live in a time of freedom for many woman most money in the sex industry does not go towards the women that are producing the content, be they strippers, hookers, escorts or porn stars.
Could sex sell as much if men acknowledged women’s carnal desires with as much seriousness as their own. Can you imagine a wonderful world were a woman can book an hour with her favorite male porn star just as easily as a man can? Where a brothel can service women and not just employ them?
I can and it will be a complete recoding of gender and sexuality and it will be beautiful.