“Women don’t need sex”
This is a sentence that someone has actually uttered to me in the last 24 hours. When I questioned this man, who is 32 years old and married, about if he really believed what he said he defensively amended his statement to – “women don’t need sex as much as men.”
My response- “ Tell that to my throbbing pussy because she’s telling me that not only do I need some sex I should be getting it rather soon.”
He looked at me rather shocked at first then started to explain that I was abnormal and making inquiries as to if I was molested as a young child. Seriously? In 2010 a woman that acknowledges her need and want for sexual gratification has to be a victim of child abuse?
How about I just like to cum? Straight up, just like any other man or woman. This shouldn’t be a shocker, I mean women are multi orgasmic. You know what I want to do as soon as I cum, cum again – but harder. It’s the way I and every other woman is built.
My chum is educated, yet decided that Maslow’s hierarchy of needs only applied to men. As I recalled, the need for sex was right there next to sleep, breathing, excreting and food. Yes, women do need sex!
See , my pussy knows her science!
To be frank my vagina and I are pretty in tune with each other. While I’m not going to let her call all the shots she keeps me very aware of how much I want to get fucked. This doesn’t make me perverted just a normal functioning human being. I know exactly why men choose to believe that women don’t need sex. Sex has become a commodity and women aren’t equal partners in the trade.
Think about it , can women buy sex from a man as readily as a man can buy sex from a woman? Hell no. While we live in a time of freedom for many woman most money in the sex industry does not go towards the women that are producing the content, be they strippers, hookers, escorts or porn stars.
Could sex sell as much if men acknowledged women’s carnal desires with as much seriousness as their own. Can you imagine a wonderful world were a woman can book an hour with her favorite male porn star just as easily as a man can? Where a brothel can service women and not just employ them?
I can and it will be a complete recoding of gender and sexuality and it will be beautiful.
As a male massage therapist I have given only a couple women the start to finish purposeful touch to orgasm on the job. In my mind I have wished it to be more and have been assured that women would do the same as men (to get their rocks off). However, it is the realities of life that says most women think it disgusting to pay for sex.
Three words: His poor wife. : (
I think its based on the comoditfication of women’s sexuality.
I could not agree more. However, I also think that a lot of people think like he does: that women aren’t supposed to really enjoy sex or it demeans them in some way or cheapens them as people. I never really understood where that thinking came from. A woman is able to be sexy (and sexual), *without* being a slut.
another reason to love my clit, she can feel a lot of things but she’s never ben bored :3
Nah. Every male’s member has feelings, and sometimes it feels bored.
perhaps you’re doing it wrong?
Not really the same thing. Even that gets dull after awhile.
You can have sex all by yourself for FREE!
I don’t really see why men or women need sex really. There have been plenty of people who are happy who have never done the wild thing in their lives. Are those people normal? No, but they do exist. I seriously think that people would be a lot less miserable about the whole “having it/not having it” when you consider it’s importance in the larger context.
In this current economy, with people working longer hours (or none) and hardly any money coming in, I would hardly think a bump and grind session would fix things. Sex costs money; you need to pay for the hotel, the fancy resteraunt, the condoms, the cab to make sure the girl goes home (or man).
Of course I probably don’t really believe any of this. Or do I?
I think that’s why that sentence of not need sex often comes up — there’s just more important things to do.
that would explain why his wife is always so cranky all the time.
sorry for the typo, was commenting from my phone
So sad, bet he’s never made his wife cum. Sad thing is alit of men still thinks like that. I may write a follow-up article if this.
That is beyond insulting. His ideas of female sexuality sure are archaic.
he basically said that since I desired sex I must be damaged somehow
He needs to stop watching Dr. Phil and the 700 Club.
yes most male revue is not on the same level of a strip club for men, there is no Champagne room for male strippers and women.
I was pretty insulted when he basically said that since I desired sex I must be damaged somehow in this day an age for such a young man to be full of shit is sad.
Wow. Just wow. Men are so full of it.
I can’t blame women as much for drinking the kool-aid as many of us have been taught from an early age that the only woman desiring of sex is a slut, and you don’t want to be a slut. And when men come into the picture, you’re damned if you do damned if you don’t.
I say let a woman be in control of her fucking sexuality and sensuality. We are no some ancillary characters to male wet dreams. We want in on the action on our own time.
I personally don’t want to be shamed for desiring sex, dreaming about sex, thinking about sex or even talking about it. Cause that’s what people do.
You made me think thar. I can’t even among a brothel for pleasuring women. Chip n’ dales is such a joke.
Why do people continue to believe in this Zero Sum theory that only Men want to have an orgasm? Oh I know because some men are misogynistic boneheads who never believe that its a woman’s right to be in control on when, where, how & why she wants to bust her own nut.
A nice little piece of thank you very much, rapped in religious dogma if I do say so myself.
Things like that make me want just give up my Y chromosome club card and become asexual.
I’m guessing his wife hasn’t met her inner nympho,lol.
lol @ the molested question. I haven’t been molested and my appetite is shocking for some,lol.