Yellowface and Asian America’s Porn Problem

stars_costume01Yellow Face isn’t okay, not on stage, not on Halloween and not in film – and yes that includes porn.  So if you are going to have any hand in creating  a porn “parody” of smash hit show that has a fan favorite character who is Korean American, hiring a white actor taping his eyes back and smearing what looks like cheeto dust on his face is just not going to sit well with people.

People will be upset because it’s racist mockery of Asian features and if there’s one group that doesn’t have options when it comes to porn its Asian Americans. Continue reading “Yellowface and Asian America’s Porn Problem”

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I’ll Be Speaking At CatalystCon East!

CatalystCon East '13

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Not So Naked Thoughts on Exxxotica NJ 2012

A personal message from moi:

There is a widget in the sidebar for donations, and you can still donate in all of the regular ways.  Anyone who donates over $50 dollars will get 15 min cam date with ME!

If you want to know what these donations will go towards, mostly it will be for transportation. I also plan on making 2-3 short videos that will be dealing with Body Acceptance and Sexuality, Asian American Masculinity and Women of Color and Sexual Self Identity.

I want to conduct better interviews with better equipment. I’ve always been using a 40 dollar mic, and a tiny point and shoot HD cam which has been working but I want to step it up! I want to be able to do interviews on and off site with better lighting and a nicer background. I also would love to be able to podcast interviews and news stories.  I’m a journalist at heart and there’s no denying it.  I want to bring high quality content that will have the ability to better discuss important topics.

If you want to see some of the products that I would like for check out my Audiovisual Wishlist on Amazon.

I also want to give my readers a chance to ask their favorite adult star a question so If you have a question you would like answered submit it and the name of the performer you want me to ask it to on Questions that are out right disrespectful will be ignored and for the love of all that is holy don’t ask me to show anyone your penis.

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Exxxotica is Coming! Exxxotica is Coming!

Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. 😀 But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.

On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo  will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere.  There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.

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N’jaila’s Mail Box : Sex Worker Racism


While I was sick about 2 months ago someone left a pretty interesting comment on one of my toy reviews. It was pretty interesting so I’ll lend my two cents.

“Hey N’Jaila, I was wondering what is your take on racism in escort communities. Sorry this isn’t on topic relative to the review, but I’ve been trying to google it since my friend was talking to me about the “no black men” policy some escorts have. I even read a blog post from a white escort, and while I know women are entitled to do what they want with their bodies and to keep themselves safe, especially in that line of work, it just seems all kind of wrong to me. I mean, we don’t even need anti-miscegenation laws or the sometimes seen lynch mobs anymore b/c people self-select, and in very predictable ways, on and off line. In blatantly racist ways. It’s just something I’ve been thinking about b/c I’ve considered escort work and it’s difficult to navigate this troubling dynamic. And of course as a black escort I’m worried if I could even make a living. Cause the discrimination goes both ways, I’d imagine white escorts get the most business in spite of age and appearance at time.  Oh and I realize you may not know much about escort side of work, but it’d still like to hear based on your experience, especially as a woman of color.” Continue reading “N’jaila’s Mail Box : Sex Worker Racism”

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Kelly Shibari Announced as First BBW Fleshlight Girl

An Asian American frist you won’t be reading about on AngryAsianMan, Japanese American and BBW superstar Kelly Shibari has been announced as the newest “Fleshlight girl”.  While Kelly is the fourth Asian American porn starlet to have her mouth, vag and booty-hole molded and kept for prosperity, she is the frist BBW.  Continue reading “Kelly Shibari Announced as First BBW Fleshlight Girl”

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Once again I was featured in the Pleasurists and wanted to share the rest of the edition with you. 


Courtesy of Ruffled Sheets*Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates.

Did you miss Pleasurists 167? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists 170? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday February 26th @ 11:59pm Pacific.

*Pleasurists recently started accepting photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here. Continue reading “”

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Get Your Politics off My Tits and Outta My Vag!

Wednesday marked the start of Black History Month. This is the one month that is set aside to uplift Americans who are part of the African Diaspora. Americans that disproportionately lack comprehensive health care and as a result are more likely to die from lack of screening for diseases.  This is why I was more than shocked to find out that Susan G Komen Foundation  picked yesterday to announce they they will cut funds to Planned Parenthood an organization that gave almost 170,000 free breast exams to women in lower income areas of the US, women who would otherwise have never been screened.

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Letting a Whore Have Her Say

A close friend of mine  linked me to a character study that appeared on the ,  profiling a 52 year old sex worker in Hunts Point New York.   The  short profile story and video (after the jump)  ,in my opinion, was a rare change of narrative that most are used to when it comes to sex work in America.

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It’s My 2nd Blogaversary! is 2 Today!!

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Sinnamon Love Celebrates Her Birthday With Happy Endings AND MY CAMERA IS RACIST.

Porn legend Sinnamon Love celebrated her 38th birthday – yes you read that correctly 38th birthday – on Dec 30th.  I was delighted to be invited to cover the event and Sinnamon Love showed up more bubbly and adorable than most girls at wish they did on their Sweet 16.  The pint sized domme and adult movie legend was joined not only by porn starlets but also poets , authors and a iconic DJ.

Revelers from all over the country partied with the birthday girl at the aptly named Happy Ending Lounge in Chinatown and got down to DJ Tony Touch working his magic on the 1 and 2’s.  Continue reading “Sinnamon Love Celebrates Her Birthday With Happy Endings AND MY CAMERA IS RACIST.”

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Nerd Porn, Are We Pwning Ourselves?

This month adult stars Misti Stone and Alana Evans are launching their gamecentric cam site to coincide with the launch of the much anticipated Gears of War 3.   According the to the press release the site will “the website will eventually host every gaming party, as well as provide in-depth profiles of each Porn Star Gamer Girl, video game reviews done by Evans and Dawn and provide plus clips and photos from previous Gamer Girl sessions.”   Sounds great for every fan of both porn and games (a vien diagram would just be one circle fyi).  But what about female game enthusiast?

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Exxxotica NJ Comes Back for Fourth Year!

Edison, NJ, –  Third time’s a charm but it looks like Exxxotica NJ is going to make its senior effort even more extravagant and exciting than before, controversy not withstanding.   If there’s one thing that Exxxotica NJ is known for its kicking up controversy.

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Anal Sex 101 with TS Star Wendy Williams

So I talked about really terrible anal sex in part one ,  now I want to talk about how to have amazing mutually pleasurable anal sex in a way that is fun, clean and of course SAFE. 

When I frist started talking about writing a how to on Anal I knew I should ask someone that is more of an authority and who is more of an authority on Anal that a TS performer?  An if I was going to go with a TS performer I had to go with a AVN and XBIZ TS performer of the year Wendy Williams, who actually worked with Doc Johnson to create an anal sex training kit. So if there was ever a person who knew how to take it in the pooper Wendy was my girl.  Continue reading “Anal Sex 101 with TS Star Wendy Williams”

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So He Wants to Put it in Your Butt…

Anal Sex: the Final Frontier

For many women my age this act has been a grey area phantom constantly lurking on your significant other’s mind and threatening the quaint dignity of your anus.  Unlike our mother’s generation where anal was a clear taboo we live in a world where thanks to porn anal has gone mainstream.  There’s been a dramatic increase of men expecting or desiring anal sex. Continue reading “So He Wants to Put it in Your Butt…”

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Shelly Lubben: Crouching LIAR, Public RACIST

Anti-Porn Crusader Shelly Lubben’s Anti-Asian Rant

The Rebel Profit has more in common with David Duke than Jesus. Watch around the 11:40 mark to hear her tell the story about “Crazy Chinaman” whose genitals are too small to use condoms.  She even does the mock accent.

The Devil And Shelley Lubben – episode 1 from Michael Whiteacre on Vimeo.

Hey Shelly, THAT’S RACIST!

Tell Shelly that this won’t be tolerated.   Continue reading “Shelly Lubben: Crouching LIAR, Public RACIST”

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