{"id":1074,"date":"2010-08-16T08:17:44","date_gmt":"2010-08-16T12:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1074"},"modified":"2010-08-16T08:17:44","modified_gmt":"2010-08-16T12:17:44","slug":"blasian-bytch-on-dating-blasian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1074","title":{"rendered":"Blasian Bytch on Dating Blasian"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"<\/a>I\u2019ve been asked to write a opinion or advice piece for Asian men on many occasions this is the first time I\u2019ve taken a serious approach to the subject.<\/p>\n

I know for many I might be a strange woman, I\u2019m a Black identified woman who through fate and circumstance found myself involved with almost exclusively Asian men.\u00a0\u00a0 I don\u2019t think this makes me any kind of expert on Asian Male Black Women relations but J.T<\/a> the Asian Playboy\u00a0asked me to write and so I shall.<\/p>\n

I think the first thing that should be obvious is that like \u201cAsians\u201d there a wide range of cultures that fall under the umbrella of \u201cBlack\u201d and those culture effect people but at the end of the day we are all individuals. There is no monolithic hive of thought governing the thoughts, desires and personalities of all Black women. \u00a0So take everything I write with that in mind.<\/p>\n

There are three basic things I think all the Asian men who appealed to me and eventually got the booty mastered and I\u2019ll try to explain them to you.\u00a0 First, they were never douche bags about race. Second they made an effort to try to understand some of our cultural differences.\u00a0 Lastly, they were comfortable being who they were and respectful of their own people and culture.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy for people to assume that just because two people in a relationship are not the same race that somehow they\u2019ve discovered the cure for racism, I know first hand that\u2019s not the case.\u00a0 Plenty of men that chose to date interracially can be total cunts when it comes to issues of race, some without even realizing it.<\/p>\n

It can be little things like turning to the hip-hop station that you would never listen to as soon as I get into the car.\u00a0 A pretty solid rule of life is if phrases like\u00a0 \u201cboo\u201d, \u201cgirlfriend\u201d or, \u201coh no he didn\u2019t\u201d aren\u2019t in your everyday vocabulary don\u2019t try to adopt them to be \u201cdown\u201d. \u00a0If these terms are in your everyday vocabulary punch yourself in the face, please. This type of racial pandering has for me been a red flag when it comes to dating…<\/p>\n

For the rest of the part one of this\u00a0piece\u00a0head over to The Asian PlayBoy’s Blog<\/a><\/p>\n\n

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