{"id":1275,"date":"2010-10-11T11:55:38","date_gmt":"2010-10-11T15:55:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1275"},"modified":"2010-12-14T12:04:45","modified_gmt":"2010-12-14T17:04:45","slug":"j-t-tran-the-world-renowned-pick-up-artist-pt-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1275","title":{"rendered":"J.T Tran- The World Renowned Pick Up Artist pt 2"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"<\/a>In the\u00a0second\u00a0part of our talk , J.T Tran <\/a>really broke down and talked about what he teaches at the ABC’s of Attraction<\/a>. \u00a0 I was surprised to find out that its not all about tagging the most bitches or collecting the most numbers. <\/span><\/p>\n

The Asian Playboy is about more than getting the most\u00a0mileage\u00a0out of his\u00a0genitals he’s about so much more…<\/span><\/p>\n


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\nOkay, well there are also those that might accuse you of taking advantage of those Asian men that feel disillusioned and disadvantaged when dating in America? <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Well again, proof is in the pudding. I\u2019ve been teaching for 5 years and they say that 90% of businesses fail in their first or second year. I have a proven track record of 5 years and I\u2019ve taught thousands of Asian men across the globe on every major continent and I have hundreds of reviews and video testimonials. So if you look at the proof and look at the results my students are getting. I\u2019m teaching them how to be successful with women of all colors, particularly white but that\u2019s just because there are more white women in this country, but they\u2019re successful with all women. Hispanic, Indian all types in fact this past weekend in the San Francisco boot camp two guys there fully romantically connect with women during the program.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Recently two New York students just lost their virginity and they were like 23, one was in the boot camp one was in the process of learning about it. They are in their twenties, the average age an American male loses his virginity is like 16.\u00a0 The average age for an Asian American male is more like 19 or 20.\u00a0 So the proof is in the pudding.<\/span><\/p>\n

We offer a three-day three-night program, which is incredibly intense, people may balk at the price but if you broke it down hourly we\u2019re getting paid a decent wage.\u00a0 It\u2019s not exorbitant.\u00a0 Its three full days of hard work and hard play and the proof is in the pudding and that\u2019s what I have to say about that.\u00a0 Of all the programs I\u2019ve ran over half of out students will write positive reviews.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well what kinds of things are you teaching these men exactly? <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s a good question, the ABC\u2019s of Attraction are a simply process that goes from \u201cA\u201d thru \u201cF\u201d.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know if you know anything about the VH1 Pick Up Artist but Mystery has this attraction formula, which is incredible, but it\u2019s also very complicated.\u00a0 Here we keep it very very simple.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Then we have a whole holistic part to it, which is like a mind \/body synthesis, so in each phase we have what we call inner game. That\u2019s your attitude, your thoughts and your internal confidence. Then there\u2019s outer game that\u2019s your physical confidence your body language and there\u2019s the actual words, verbal attraction.\u00a0 What you\u2019d actually say to a girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

So for the \u201cA\u201d phase, its like Sun Tzu says, \u201cThe battle is won or lost before its even fought.\u201d\u00a0 With \u201cA\u201d you have to remember Attitude, Attract, and then Approach.\u00a0\u00a0 So you enter a place, a bar or club or coffee shop you want to have the right mental attitude not only towards yourself but women.\u00a0 What I like to call the \u201cfun maker\u201d not the \u201cfun taker\u201d. \u00a0Someone that gives value and provides enjoyment. You should walk in there and know that you\u2019re the most interesting Asian man in her life.<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the highest compliments a girl has told me was that I was one of the top ten most interesting people she\u2019s met and the most interesting Asian she\u2019d ever experienced.\u00a0 You want to have the right attitude coming into that place , when you talk to women but also being sexual and confident.<\/span><\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t kind of insulted that some chick just basically said your interesting \u201cfor an Asian\u201d. \u00a0Seems like a backwards compliment. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking at it incorrectly; I\u2019m the most interesting Asian person she\u2019s ever met. Of ALL the Asians she\u2019s ever met I am the most interesting.\u00a0\u00a0 Cause you know Black, White , whatever , statistically speaking there\u2019s not that many Asian men in the population. She\u2019s not going to run across that many Asians, that\u2019s just a fact of life.\u00a0 Talking to her I was an interesting guy. You want to be a fun confident interesting guy and impress upon her for future generations that other Asians can be just as fun and interesting.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>That\u2019s important because attraction starts before you talk to her, before you even go up to her and open your mouth.\u00a0 Your physical confidence, how you look, how you walk, that swagger.\u00a0 You exude that confidence, that fun.\u00a0\u00a0 Its all body language, you can read about it online but it different from seeing it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Then there\u2019s the words that come out of your mouth, we do that last because the words are important, but its how you carry yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

So that\u2019s just an example of the \u201cA\u201d phase and it goes all the way through \u201cF\u201d and each phase has a mental, body and verbal component.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well I\u2019ve had some experience with guys that called themselves Pick Up Artist and \u2026 well it didn\u2019t end well for them to put it politely, and I\u2019m not alone many women have a bad taste in their mouth when they hear \u201cPick Up Artist\u201d Where do you think that stigma comes from?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Well yeah, there\u2019s a stigma associated with it unfortunately, but there are different schools of thought.\u00a0 There\u2019s different \u201cDojos\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dojos?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeah, what we try to do for us, because I can\u2019t speak for other schools, is emphasize self-improvement as well as actual technique. It\u2019s not all about going out there and banging bitches and all that crap.\u00a0\u00a0 I\u2019ll admit its part of it, guys do want to have fun but when people come to us its obvious they\u2019re a little unhappy about their life.\u00a0 They identified the problem being the lack of women in their lives, and we can always use more beautiful women in our lives, but at the core typically there\u2019s something missing in their life. <\/span><\/p>\n

They might be at a crappy job or still living with their parents or not living interesting lives, there are bigger issues at the core of that problem. Its like Buddhist philosophy, if you drop a pebble in a pound they\u2019ll be all these ripple effects the lack of women is a ripple, a symptom of the issues.\u00a0\u00a0 While we may alleviate the symptom we try to do is identify their core issues, its usually a lot bigger than just women.<\/span><\/p>\n

I remember going to Australia and giving a speech, the topic I was asked to cover was \u201cmanhood\u201d.\u00a0\u00a0 What it means to be a man and all the rites of passage. So I go, since it Sydney ,Australia\u00a0 there\u2019s like 50 Asian guys and like 5 White guys.\u00a0 At one point I asked who still lives at home? Who still lives with Mommy and Daddy?\u00a0 I want you to guess how many White guys raised their hands and how many Asian guys raised their hands.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just from my own experience I\u2019m going say that most of the Asian guys raised their hands. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Zero White guys raised their hands and all 50 Asian guys raised their hands. I was like , \u2018you know guys this is your biggest issue right there\u2019.\u00a0 Its not that you can\u2019t get women it\u2019s the fact that you\u2019re living at HOME.\u00a0 You can get all the technique and pick up lines , all the fancy stuff you want but the big issue is you\u2019re living at home with your Mom and Dad.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know in Asian , and Asian American culture that\u2019s fine , it\u2019s actually pretty acceptable and in many ways its encouraged, but if you\u2019re trying to date\u2026 it makes life very difficult especially if you\u2019re trying to date outside your race.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yeah, I could tell you a lot of stories I have from dating guys that lived at home, I\u2019ve hidden under beds, in closets\u2026 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

(laughs)Yeah, if you live at home, you have to get some parental distractions \u2013<\/span><\/p>\n

Or get a hotel room , cheap bastards. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

(laughs) I\u2019ve done that as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

The main premise is that beyond giving them the ability to talk to women is to enhance their lifestyle, that\u2019s typically the biggest issue. That\u2019s the main thing they can do to change in the long term that will give them more access to women.<\/span><\/p>\n

Continued in Part Three<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n\n
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