{"id":1458,"date":"2010-11-15T11:58:35","date_gmt":"2010-11-15T16:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1458"},"modified":"2010-11-16T09:38:03","modified_gmt":"2010-11-16T14:38:03","slug":"exxxotica-nj-day-3-and-what-i-learned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1458","title":{"rendered":"Exxxotica NJ Day 3 and What I learned"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"<\/a>Day three of Exxxotica had me\u00a0completely\u00a0exhausted and I was so lucky to have funny man Ryan O’Regan on hand to help me with interviews. This was really his day to shine he interviewed Lisa Ann, Sunny Lane, Lupe Fuentes and so many more people. It was like he was born to interview porn stars!<\/p>\n

Well, mere words won’t do his charisma justice here’s his interview with Lisa Ann!
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Another great thing about the last day at Exxxotica NJ was that DJ K Slay and Killa Cam where there with Dipsexxx to promote the upcoming Rhymesndimes.com<\/a>. \u00a0This was not related to Phatties Rymes and Dimes which\u00a0popularized\u00a0the knee-slappingly hilarious “Oh and its Shaved<\/a>“. There was fun music, booty shaking, sexy girls and free t-shirts.<\/p>\n

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I was\u00a0unfortunately\u00a0sick as a dog, I’m still sick as I type this two bottles of Dayquil later.<\/p>\n

Looking back at this year’s event it was clear that there was a lot of growth and better\u00a0organization\u00a0of activities. There was also a lot of diversity among the performers present, but there was one group that was absurdly under represented- GAYS.<\/p>\n

What little presence there was for gay friendly content from last year was gone from this year’s show. \u00a0Last year the unveiling of the RealTouch and a few other booths that featured gay content were extremely popular. \u00a0I was a little saddening to see a drop in representation. I for one looked forward to finding new content and new ways to consume the sort of content I enjoy.<\/p>\n

I hope more gay and Alt porn stars will make\u00a0appearances, I would love to interview Jizz Lee \u00a0or Buck Angel at Exxxotica in the future.<\/p>\n

This Exxxotica was a learning\u00a0experience\u00a0for me. Working with a team, setting budgets and producing content is not as easy as I thought it would be. \u00a0Doing interviews in front of a camera is\u00a0terrifying! \u00a0In all my years of journalism I never once had to be in front of the camera. \u00a0I learned I sort of suck at it…BUT I’m looking at all my many mistakes and learning from them.<\/p>\n

Another thing I should address is what I learned about me. I haven’t danced steadily in two years. I used to look like the damn cartoon of me. \u00a0Looking at the video interviews I shot… I look like me in a fat suit. \u00a0Hell, I looked like a dead bloated beached whale , right at the moment before all the decomposition gasses coat\u00a0Taiwanese\u00a0citizens with its guts.<\/p>\n

I was trying to have a good attitude about the whole thing, wearing clothes I would have worn even if I was feeling confident about my body and all. \u00a0Boy did that plan backfire. \u00a0I just look at my arms and recoil in terror.<\/p>\n

You must be thinking Jaila, you’re a BBW performer the fatter you get the more money you make. Yeah Okay… but not everything is about money. I want to feel healthy. I don’t. \u00a0Do I want to be thin, not really. I was comfortable being a bigger woman…but not this fucking big.<\/p>\n

I’m happy that my same super supportive virtual boyfriend that had my back for Exxxotica is behind me on this as well. \u00a0I hope all the guy that like to see me dance (and I met some of you at Exxxotica and it was AWESOME) support me too. \u00a0I’m going to be getting my body right to feel healthy and happy. \u00a0You want a happy, healthy, flexible N’jaila to dance for you right? \u00a0Good then \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n

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