{"id":1850,"date":"2011-05-15T14:09:57","date_gmt":"2011-05-15T18:09:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1850"},"modified":"2025-10-09T21:01:00","modified_gmt":"2011-05-15T18:12:51","slug":"my-first-fetish-party-the-sybarite-awards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=1850","title":{"rendered":"My first Fetish Party: The Sybarite Awards"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Fun for the Entire Leather Family!<\/h1>\n

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It was that kinda party. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

During a torrential downpour in New York City a who\u2019s who of the Adult and Fetish community gathered in an exclusive private penthouse. Hosted by Playboy TV and Spice Radio personality, Head Mistress of Hedoonline , Lola Bastinado .\u00a0 International porn superstars, pent house pets and other celebrities attended the event. \u00a0This event was also my first fetish party.<\/p>\n

Guests were treated to live music and fetish\/ bondage demonstrations before the award ceremony.\u00a0\u00a0 Sexy male and female go-go dancers performed for and with delighted onlookers.\u00a0 There was an array of different S&M activities for the pleasures of the attendees, including static electric wands, love swings and plethora of leather restraints.<\/p>\n

I have to say I felt more than intimidated walking into the venue. I\u2019ve covered lifestyle events before, but none were like this. I also attended those as N\u2019jaila, the completely detached journalist, not N\u2019jaila BBW Adult entertainer. \u00a0It was second nature for me, only a few years ago. \u00a0\u00a0I would be lying if I didn\u2019t admit that it didn\u2019t feel damn good.<\/p>\n

\"Britney<\/a>It was great chill with my awesome publicist and shake my tail feather with the always fun Brittney Andrews.\u00a0\u00a0 What I found very odd was that most of the civilians in attendance were looking at me like some weird flower.\u00a0 I even had one fellow with a very sexy body \u2013 but deal breaking Ed hardy Tee- tell me that I was the only \u201cbig girl\u201d to get him so excited. Seriously?\u00a0 Is that how men are trying to get their dick wet these days?<\/p>\n

Because I was there as a journalist I wasn\u2019t trying to actually \u201cplay\u201d on premises with any couples. \u00a0I did hand my card out to some very handsome couples after chatting them up a bit.\u00a0 I\u2019ll have to admit I don\u2019t quite know the etiquette in these situations yet.\u00a0 I assumed it would be more respectful to approach the female before eye fucking her man right in front of her.\u00a0 I might as well be polite and pretend like I have any intention of touching her vagina.<\/p>\n

Approaching someone in this kind of situation is always a little awkward, but when your fat black and usually 2 or 3 inches taller than other people you have to have a little extra fortitude to your balls. \u00a0There were few Black or Asian couples meaning the majority of men dancing with and interacting with me were White. While I have no issues with that, one always has to consider if his partner does.\u00a0\u00a0 It always feels like doing the tarantella on a carton of eggs.<\/p>\n

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My boobs ladies and gentleman. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Of course when I\u2019m out on the dance floor I know I\u2019m bound to make some new friends -especially with the 40HHs in full view and decoratively painted.\u00a0 But there just something special about having friends dancing with you.\u00a0 I\u00a0 know I would have held up solo, but would it have been as fun most likely not.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad that was able to keep my inner hueax in check and out of trouble.\u00a0 No matter how tempting the camera man or middle aged Asian guy, my clit was on her best behavior. \u00a0I had a lot of fun and met some great people; I would love to attend a party like this as a guest so I don\u2019t have to be such a good girl.<\/p>\n

The main even were the Sybarite Awards. The show was short and festive, with celebrity presenters Brittany Andrews, Moe The Monster, former New York gubernatorial candidate and Manhattan Madam Kristen Davis among others.<\/p>\n

All the categories were vote on by the community with winners from all over the country.\u00a0 The winners were:<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
Favorite Website:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

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Favorite New Website:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

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Favorite Product:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

WET Snergy<\/a><\/p>\n

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Favorite LifeStyle Club:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

TABU (Maryland)<\/a><\/p>\n

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Favorite On Premise Party:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

TASTE (NYC)<\/a><\/p>\n

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Favorite Off Premise Party:<\/strong> <\/p>\n

Heaven (Las Vegas)<\/p>\n

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