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Anal Sex: the Final Frontier<\/h1>\n

\"\"<\/a>For many women my age this act has been a grey area phantom constantly lurking on your significant other\u2019s mind and threatening the quaint dignity of your anus.\u00a0 Unlike our mother\u2019s generation where anal was a clear taboo we live in a world where thanks to porn anal has gone\u00a0mainstream. \u00a0There\u2019s been a dramatic increase of men expecting or desiring anal sex.<\/p>\n

Real Women Talk About Anal Sex<\/strong><\/p>\n

Some of my readers pitch in on what they think about Anal sex<\/p>\n

” Tried it once when I was 17. My boyfriend at the time was like, 5.5 inches and we didn’t use lube because we didn’t know what we were doing. It was a bloody, unpleasant mess XD but I’m still not against it because some guys are into that sort of thing and if they’re good to me I don’t mind giving them that. So yeah, I guess that’s how I feel about it XD”<\/p>\n

“I’m a virgin and bisexual, oddly enough I get more excited imagining anal sex during masturbation then vaginal. \u00a0I can’t wait to try it when I’m ready.”<\/p>\n

“It depends on the woman, right? I personally have never been into anal sex so if a guy asks for it then yes, I am doing it for him. But like, if the woman is into it (I know some that have been) and she asks for it, then it’s something that the man is doing for the woman.”<\/p>\n

“I’m gay and most people assume because I’ve never been with a man I’ve never had anal. WRONG! its as much an option for lesbians as heteros. Just keep your anal and vaginal toys\u00a0separated\u00a0at all times!”<\/p>\n

<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>I used to be one of the women that couldn\u2019t imagine a more foul and disgusting act than anal. I mean it involves butts and that\u2019s where everyone poops from, and that\u2019s a less than sexually stimulating thought.\u00a0 It has been a long journey from seeing my butt as a two-way door and not just an exit.<\/p>\n

The thing about anal is that everyone is pretty much right, its not for everyone and not everyone should be trusted to do it. \u00a0I\u2019m not going to act as if you have to be on a higher level of consciousness to appreciate a dick in your ass like some crazy chicks<\/a>.\u00a0 I simply want to encourage those that already have the curiosity to try it out. \u00a0It\u2019s not as terrible as some make it out. If I can get into it after my disastrous introduction anyone can.<\/p>\n

The first time I had anal was in college. I was having a fling with this DEA officer who happened to live in the same building but upstairs from this other dude I had an odd relationship with. It was an awkward situation all around.\u00a0 I\u2019m pretty sure the cop got arrested for protecting a Korean tug station a few years later.\u00a0 He was a weird guy; he actually broke up with me after I epically destroyed chances of boners.\u00a0 Nothing brings an affair to a screeching halt than reminding a guy with a young daughter that you were someone\u2019s little girl once.\u00a0 But I\u2019m going on a tangent.<\/p>\n

Me and Officer Douche-bag would usually hang out at his bachelor pad.\u00a0 It was a sad panorama of arrested development, 360 degrees of deferred dreams and broken promises.\u00a0 Looking back I can\u2019t decide what was more depressing the piles of wrinkled laundry, cans of beer or dusty unopened toys intended for his estranged daughter.\u00a0 He once took out a camera he told me he used to take pictures of crime scenes. I don\u2019t know if he was lying or not but the thing had a knack for capturing the very dead thing inside all of its objects.<\/p>\n

The pictures of his family always felt ghoulish to me, I would always turn them down. I told him that I felt guilty that his ex-wife was watching but really it was because the family looked like wax zombies in every shot. He was once insistent on taking a picture of me before coitus.\u00a0 I\u2019m wearing a over-sized Rutgers sweatshirt, a jeans mini skirt that had seen better days and low top converses with comically cheerful pink socks and the saddest little half smile.<\/p>\n

I look almost child like, exploited and broken. A hard to achieve look on a 5\u20199, 200-pound, 20-year-old woman.\u00a0\u00a0 I can\u2019t remember what drama was going on in my life then looking at that picture with my face mournfully looking up and through the camera I want to go back in time to hug myself. \u00a0It gave me the chills whenever I looked at it and sometimes couldn\u2019t believe it was picture of me. \u00a0And this fuckass looked at me in that state and thought to himself, \u201cYa know what she needs, surprised un-lubed penis in her butt.\u201d<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what I got, bent over his couch and handcuffed to a pipe in the corner of his apartment. I\u2019m very fortunate that other than discomfort he didn\u2019t tear anything and I wasn\u2019t bleeding.\u00a0 Being the composed lady I am, I don\u2019t think I even cried. I did tell him to stop but his response was.<\/p>\n

\u201cIts already in, might as well try to enjoy it.\u201d<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Despite his praise that I was \u201ca natural\u201d it sure didn\u2019t feel like that was the case.\u00a0 I was in pain and worst of all felt violated.\u00a0 Of course Officer Douche Bag wasn\u2019t interested much in how I felt or if I was traumatized. When I stopped talking to him after this he sent me an email wondering if I was angry because he stole my copy of Natural City<\/a>\"\".\u00a0 No mention of the entering one of my body cavities without asking or without preparation or even returning the damn DVD he stole.<\/p>\n

Needless to say my view of non-traditional sex was greatly tarnished, but not forever damaged.\u00a0 As I explored with partners that actually gave a shit about me, I realized that the act, just like any other, is what you make it.\u00a0\u00a0 If you feel comfortable and *ahem* open, it can be just as pleasurable for you as for your partner.<\/p>\n

If a guy isn\u2019t willing to lube you up, then he is not worthy of your asshole. If you don’t trust a man to stop if you tell him it hurts, he’s not worthy of your asshole. \u00a0If he thinks its gross to do anything put shove his penis in, he not worthy of your asshole.<\/p>\n

Continued in part 2 and 3<\/h2>\n

Anal Sex 101 TS Star Wendy Williams<\/a><\/h1>\n

Anal Sex: Risks, Facts and Pleasure<\/h1>\n

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