{"id":3241,"date":"2012-11-29T13:13:14","date_gmt":"2012-11-29T18:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=3241"},"modified":"2013-02-10T13:56:18","modified_gmt":"2013-02-10T18:56:18","slug":"ill-be-speaking-at-catalystcon-east","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blasianbytch.com\/?p=3241","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ll Be Speaking At CatalystCon East!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"5576db7a7c7e3386c4a1c431cd35b6c6\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:5px 0 5px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<br><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vibrant-vibes.com\/Vibrators\/Luxury?a=Vibrant-vibes&cid=257\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blasianbytch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/luxury_items_714x239.jpg?w=840\"\/><\/a><br>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/catalystcon.com\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"CatalystCon East '13\" alt=\"CatalystCon East '13\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/catalystcon.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/speaker3.gif?w=840\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--more-->I will be speaking on the following panel:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?: Body Image and Sexuality<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em id=\"__mceDel\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/catalystcon.com\/speakers-east\/#cathyv\">Cathy Vartuli<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/catalystcon.com\/speakers-east\/#heidia\">Heidi Anderson<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/catalystcon.com\/speakers-east\/#ladycheeky\">Lady Cheeky<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/catalystcon.com\/speakers-east\/#njailar\">N\u2019Jaila Rhee<\/a>\u00a0<\/em>#cconbody<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Size and body image can have profound and sometimes debilitating effects on a person\u2019s sexual self-esteem and self-expression. Internalized shame and feelings of inadequacy are often super-charged by the constant stream of external judgment, a barrage of media and marketing pressure (individuals are exposed to an estimated 300,000 negative images or comments about weight each year), and socially acceptable prejudice against those who don\u2019t conform.<\/p>\n<p>People of size can be left feeling like a different species, and when they speak up, are often silenced by people citing health issues or the latest diet trend. Plus-size youth are subjected to additional peer pressures that include not only size-shaming but also sex-based shaming.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Releasing the internalized shame and improving our body image can go a long way towards changing this pattern. When people accept themselves as they are, and learn to love themselves and their bodies, they can start making a difference in the world. Shame creates stresses which are hard on the body and on relationships with others, and can reduce mental focus and initiative.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In this panel, we\u2019ll examine the effects of internal and external shame, share statistics and discuss approaches and techniques for reclaiming confidence and self-love, as well as dealing with negative pressure from both society and those closest to us.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;m very excited to be part of this\u00a0experience, especially after having such a positive\u00a0experience\u00a0at Exxxotica. 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