Come see me at Exxxotica NJ!

Exxxotica Expo returns for its 12th year and the New Jersey Expo center will be filled with glitter and the newest self-fuck devices. It’s a magical weekend when the least sexy state turns up the heat and airs out its junk – like sexily, not like in a yeasty way. I would like to say it feels like I was covering the first show for my college paper yesterday, but I can’t fathom that it’s been over a decade. Youth sure did prove more fleeting than I anticipated. You know what else is fleeting? TICKETS! Get yours before they sell out!

Off Market Zombie Pussy and Other Updates

I had the pleasure of being interviewed on The Inner Hoe Uprising Podcast as a part of their series on sex workers. If you ever wanted a comprehensive rundown of my hoe-story this is the podcast for you! We talk about a lot of the realities of being big, Blasian and surviving thanks to erotic labor. I also fact check the Jennifer Lopez/ Constance Wu ripped from the headlines crime dramedy HUSTLERS. The episode is available on all the platforms, give it a listen and support my fellow black femme content creators.

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Decriminalizing Sex Work Webinar – GET INVOLVED

Tuesday, June 25 – 3 PM (ET) / Noon (PT)

REGISTER HERE bit.ly/DecrimSexWorkWebinar

Speakers:

Christian A’Xavier Lovehall: sex worker, sex worker rights advocate and representative of the Black Sex Workers Collective
Nina Luo: Founding member of DecrimNY and organizer with VOCAL-NY
Derek J. Demeri: Sex worker rights activists, co-founder of New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance, co-author of 2018 NLG resolution against SESTA FOSTA
Katie Tastrom: lawyer, writer, disability and sex work activist, and NLG Disability Rights Committee co-chair
N’jaila Rhee: Sex worker, advocate and executive committee member of New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance

Presented by the Sex Worker Rights Working Group of the National Lawyers Guild (NLG) Queer Caucus, this webinar will include a primer on the sex work, an explanation of the current and proposed policies that impact them, and the NLG’s current and potential positions on these policies. While it’s targeted towards NLG members, this webinar is appropriate for anyone who wants to learn more about sex worker rights!

At last year’s #Law4thePeople Convention, NLG members voted to pass a resolution condemning the anti-sex worker legislation SESTA/FOSTA. During the process, we learned that many NLG members had questions about sex worker rights and impending legislation. Now that New York and Washington, DC have introduced legislation to decriminalize sex work, it’s crucial that NLG members across the country have a basic understanding of the issue and learn how to get involved.

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Panel – Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

I have the honor of being a part of panel discussion on a topic very important to me and many other sex workers – Sexuality and Censorship Online. The title of the panel discussion is:

Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

We’ll be discussing how sexism, misogyny, and racism are built into the biases of our digital world, and how they affect our conversations around sexuality.

WHERE:

WHEN: Thursday August 16th

TIME: Arrive at 6.30pm for 7.00pm start

Tickets can be purchased HERE

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Housing Emergency Fundraiser for a Disabled Trans Woman of Color

The New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA) is raising funds for a trans worker of color in New Jersey who has recently lost her leg from infection and is facing economic hardship. We are trying to raise funds to save her home and provide a secure place for her to continue to recover. NJRUA has raised 25% of their goal and while we have saved her from eviction she still need assistance with a large debt. I hope that everyone can donate or share the fundraiser.

Happy Blogaversary!

Mama’s Got a Brand New Podcast

The dawn of a new era, the Cuntcast Podcast launches with its first full episode with host N’Jaila Rhee and co-host Aaron Rand Freeman. We introduce our new sex and pop culture podcast the only way we know how: by Canceling WET Lube for sponsoring FuckBoi Final Boss James Deen, calling out the mental gymnastics of fat-shamers, and poking holes in the “contraceptive” Jiftip.

You can subscribe to new episodes on Google Play or check out our website – www.Cuntcastpodcast.com.

N’jaila Joins The Unapologet!cs Podcast for Kinky Fun

What’s good? Miss me? I missed me, too!

I’ve got back to my content producing sexual self and dropped by the Unapologet!cs for their Kink Positive series. I joined hosts Dani and Animaine and talked about my favorite kinks and gave advice to those starting to explore BDSM and other fetishes. I also shared my complete aversion to the most common fetish, feet.

I reviewed Wonder Woman for The Nerds of Color!

Wonder Woman: The OG Feminist Social Justice Warrior Finally Arrives on the Big Screen

My prescreening was in 3D, Don’t pay extra for 3D.

I bought this shirt more that 10 years ago to see Wonder Woman in. Mission Accomplished

I taught myself how to read with the Perez run of Wonder Woman when I was four years old. So couldn’t pass up a chance to review her cinematic début! Hop over to The Nerds of Color and give it a read.

I was also on the Hard NOC Life, the Nerds of Color podcast.

Fuck off 2016!!

It’s finally over! So Logan and I wish you a Happy New Year!!

N’jaila Rhee Coming to a TV Near You!

UnSlut: A Documentary Film is this 2016 winner in PBS’s To The Contrary All About Women & Girls Film Festival. The film explores modern society’s treatment of women with a focus on sexual bullying aka “Slut Shaming”. Using interviews with survivors, family members, professors, authors , doctors and volunteers dissect and define the phenomenon of the “slut”.

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Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire

For six seasons on Showtimes Gigolos, Garren James has let us into the world of male escorts that specialize in offering companionship to women. In a world of constant online harassment and unsolicited dick pics destroying our phones like an angry genital tsunami, James has managed to get women to pay for male attention. I got to speak with James about how Cowboys4Angels came to be and how it works. Continue reading “Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire”

Test, This is a Test Post.

Fuck you, I’ll fix my own fucking site.

Is the Election Impacting Your Sex Life?

I was a guest host for Hotline, Fusion’s live sexual health call-in show hosted by Cleo Stiller. I rarely talk about my personal relationships – even on After Dark, but I thought this was an important topic. We talk about how many aspects of this election or politics, in general, impact our sex lives.

People buy into the idea that love or at least passion will conquer all, but I think it’s unrealistic to expect to keep up a healthy sexual relationship with someone who doesn’t share your core values. Especially when those values include things like equal rights, or not wanting your extrajudicial killing justified by your skin color. There’s nothing wrong with admitting that certain politics dry your walls or itch your balls. I feel sick when I think about getting stroked and providing pleasure to a bigot that thinks basic human rights are up for debate.

Personally, I’d rather go orgasm free than contribute to the ejaculation of a person with a hateful heart.

Have you ever had to dip out on someone because of conflicting political beliefs? Tell me about it in the comments!

You Knew This Day Would Come, Get Ready for Hamiltoe

hamilton-900x506 — Like this but with fucking.

Unless you’ve lived under a rock or just awoke from a sitcom coma you fell into January 2015 you’ve heard of Lin-Manuel Miranda’s Hamilton. The surprise broadway sensation based on a mix tape inspired by Ron Chernow’s biography of Alexander Hamilton recently won 11 Tony’s, a Pulitzer and a Grammy. Since we live in a the darkest timeline anything getting this much media buzz gets a porn “parody” treatment. Continue reading “You Knew This Day Would Come, Get Ready for Hamiltoe”

Finally a Good Day to Be Black & Sexy For Me! N’jaila Rhee on Dope Deconstruction

I did my own makeup in the bathroom of Theatre Arts Building of Hunter College. I hadn’t been back there since I stopped auditioning for student films when I was 15.

I had the pleasure of being a guest on Black & Sexy TV‘s new original show Dope Deconstruction. The show is helmed by Shan & Sam from the Inner Ho Uprising Podcast. It was a great opportunity to talk about sex workers rights, belly worship shows and how to have great phone sex.

I’m not used to being the one that has to answer questions but I had a wonderful time. Sam & Shan were fun, witty and we had a fascinating conversation. I’m still getting used to being in front of a camera while not getting someone off. There’s something empowering about talking to young sex positive people.

http://www.njailarhee.com/post/145326277182/i-had-the-pleasure-of-being-a-guest-on-the-awesome

Toy Review: Womanizer W100

[pullquote][/pullquote] Whew, It’s been a while since I’ve found a product that got me excited enough to want to review it. I was fortunate enough to be contacted by EPI24 to try out their product. What interested me most about the product was their PleasureAir technology that promised a new way to stimulate and produce multiple orgasms. Unfortunate name aside I couldn’t wait to give the Womanizer a try.

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TWiB After Dark Returns with a BANG!

I’m so happy that I’ll be back on track with my podcast TWiB After Dark! Last week I recorded the first episode of 2016 and I think we started the year off with a bang , well not so much an real bang. I actually spent the first episode singing the ballad of my un-fucked vagina. Sad puss aside I’m very happy with the line up I have for the first guest this year. I’ve had folks asking me to have him on since last year but – now its going to happen!

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Twitter Has Made It Impossible to Ignore the Reality of Sex Work

Lux Alptraum wrote this great piece on how Twitter has impacted the visibility of Sex Workers and how that affects us. The article also Charlotte Shane and Anlina Sheng of the Winnipeg Working Group for Sex Workers’ Rights . You can read the article

HERE

BLACK TRANS SEX WORKER LIVES MATTER

When I wrote about the Daniel Holtzclaw case for TitsandSass I was happy the piece was generally well received, but sadly there have been ignorant people who felt that including instances where Black trans women were violated somehow detracted from the article. Those people are assholes.

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