Lainie Speiser has written frankly and openly about sex and the adult industry for quite some time. From Threesomes to sex games Speiser takes a direct and funny approach to finding pleasure. Her new offering explores a bedroom staple, the Blow Job. If you’re not so adventurous in the bed room this book is a push in the right direction.
I attended the launch party and got to have a little talk about sucking dick with the master.
What was you inspiration for writing the book and how long was the process?
It was actually very quick; it took one summer of 2009.
What can readers expect from the book?
They can expect real advice and simple advise for hot sex. I don’t speak very clinically; I’m obviously not a therapist or a doctor. I have worked in adult entertainment for almost 20 years. I have experienced and seen a lot.
I wanted to write a book that would make the both of you happy. The thing with blowjobs is not really about serving the one person it should be a mutually gratifying experience.
Is it a gender-neutral book?
Well it is a man/woman book, but a lot of my gay friends have picked it up and really enjoyed it. It can cater to gay men, but I say it’s not gender neutral because the photos supplied are of heterosexual couples but certainly gay men can learn from it as well. Having blown a few gay men before I think I qualify. (laughs)
You really can say you give good head until you’ve blown a Bi-Guy.
I’ve blown a few and they were quite happy. (laughs)
I think one of the proudest days of my life was when my Bi friend told me I suck dick better than a man.
I KNOW! Its just a really great moment. When I sexy bisexual tell you , you give a great blow job you know it’s the ultimate compliment on your skills. You know that your good.
Where can people get a hold of this book?
Its available now at Borders, Barnes and Noble and of course Amazon.
Where can people find out more about you?
Oh you can find me on twitter, myspace, everywhere I’m all over.