Panel – Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

I have the honor of being a part of panel discussion on a topic very important to me and many other sex workers – Sexuality and Censorship Online. The title of the panel discussion is:

Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

We’ll be discussing how sexism, misogyny, and racism are built into the biases of our digital world, and how they affect our conversations around sexuality.

WHERE:

WHEN: Thursday August 16th

TIME: Arrive at 6.30pm for 7.00pm start

Tickets can be purchased HERE

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I reviewed Wonder Woman for The Nerds of Color!

Wonder Woman: The OG Feminist Social Justice Warrior Finally Arrives on the Big Screen

My prescreening was in 3D, Don’t pay extra for 3D.

I bought this shirt more that 10 years ago to see Wonder Woman in. Mission Accomplished

I taught myself how to read with the Perez run of Wonder Woman when I was four years old. So couldn’t pass up a chance to review her cinematic début! Hop over to The Nerds of Color and give it a read.

I was also on the Hard NOC Life, the Nerds of Color podcast.

N’jaila Rhee Coming to a TV Near You!

UnSlut: A Documentary Film is this 2016 winner in PBS’s To The Contrary All About Women & Girls Film Festival. The film explores modern society’s treatment of women with a focus on sexual bullying aka “Slut Shaming”. Using interviews with survivors, family members, professors, authors , doctors and volunteers dissect and define the phenomenon of the “slut”.

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Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire

For six seasons on Showtimes Gigolos, Garren James has let us into the world of male escorts that specialize in offering companionship to women. In a world of constant online harassment and unsolicited dick pics destroying our phones like an angry genital tsunami, James has managed to get women to pay for male attention. I got to speak with James about how Cowboys4Angels came to be and how it works. Continue reading “Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire”

Finally a Good Day to Be Black & Sexy For Me! N’jaila Rhee on Dope Deconstruction

I did my own makeup in the bathroom of Theatre Arts Building of Hunter College. I hadn’t been back there since I stopped auditioning for student films when I was 15.

I had the pleasure of being a guest on Black & Sexy TV‘s new original show Dope Deconstruction. The show is helmed by Shan & Sam from the Inner Ho Uprising Podcast. It was a great opportunity to talk about sex workers rights, belly worship shows and how to have great phone sex.

I’m not used to being the one that has to answer questions but I had a wonderful time. Sam & Shan were fun, witty and we had a fascinating conversation. I’m still getting used to being in front of a camera while not getting someone off. There’s something empowering about talking to young sex positive people.

http://www.njailarhee.com/post/145326277182/i-had-the-pleasure-of-being-a-guest-on-the-awesome

TWiB After Dark Returns with a BANG!

I’m so happy that I’ll be back on track with my podcast TWiB After Dark! Last week I recorded the first episode of 2016 and I think we started the year off with a bang , well not so much an real bang. I actually spent the first episode singing the ballad of my un-fucked vagina. Sad puss aside I’m very happy with the line up I have for the first guest this year. I’ve had folks asking me to have him on since last year but – now its going to happen!

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Twitter Has Made It Impossible to Ignore the Reality of Sex Work

Lux Alptraum wrote this great piece on how Twitter has impacted the visibility of Sex Workers and how that affects us. The article also Charlotte Shane and Anlina Sheng of the Winnipeg Working Group for Sex Workers’ Rights . You can read the article

HERE

TWIB AFTER DARK GIVEAWAY – Flash Brown Cock!

I’ll be welcoming Flash Brown (@flashbrownxxx) as a guest on Twib After Dark on Feb. 25th and to celebrate one of my favorite performers we are giving away one of his toys!

Molded from his impressive 11.5 inch penis, these toys come in several varieties, squirting vibrating and always filling. Flash Brown Vibrator

Flash Brown hails from Memphis, and played professional basketball overseas and semi-pro basketball in the United States before entering the world of adult entertainment. His impressive 11.5” cock has made him a hit with fans around the globe, earning him an XBIZ Best Male Newcomer Award and several Urban X Awards. Nominations from AVN Awards, The Sex Awards, and XRCO prove his on-screen prowess.

If you have any questions for Flash please leave them in the comments below if you wish to enter the give away you can do it right here:

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A Special TWIB After Dark

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This week I had the pleaser of co-hosting TWiB After Dark with the actress and TWIB contributor Pia Glenn! Let me tell ya’ll about Pia, she’s awesome she is proof that we are all made of stars. ( Of course me and you are made of that trash planet from Transformers the Movie, she is made from a planet that’s all diamonds like that episode of Dr. Who) She is genetically superior being who is gracing us with the chance to be in her presence.

Not only can you be aurally pleasured by Pia’s voice on this week’s After Dark we got to speak to some of the ladies of Everyday Whorephobia @_peech and @MeliMachiavelli. I’m so happy I was able to talk with them about the murders of #TjhishaAndAngelia and spread the word about their memorial fund.

Listen to After Dark #41: The Red Wedding

Student Activists Mourn Michael Brown With #HandsUpWalkOut

Students around the country staged a #HandsUpWalkOut on the day Michael Brown was laid to rest. Brown would have started his freshman year at a local trade college on Aug 9 had he not been shot six times by police officer Darren Wilson. Brown was autopsied thrice before his funeral.

Activists from Freedom Side, Dream Defenders, and Hands Up United coordinated the event to show solidarity with the Brown family and others slain by police. According to a #HandsUpWalkOut action toolkit available on HandsUpUnited.org, the walkouts are not protests or rallies, but “an event to mourn the loss of community members.” Organizers supplied a list of suggested post-walkout activities, such as reading names of the deceased, asking participants to voice their feelings and inquire about the emotional well-being of fellow students, and singing of “freedom songs.”

WashU students stand in support of #JusticeForMikeBrown #HandsUpWalkOut #HandsUpDontShoot pic.twitter.com/eFZaczNQib — OBS-STL (@OBS_StL) August 25, 2014

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Sex, Sex Work and the Web #TtW14

I had the distinct honor of being a panelist at this year’s Theorizing the Web conference which too place in Brooklyn NY April 25& 26th. My panel “Sex Work and the Web, was moderated by the amazing Melissa Gira Grant, author of Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work . My fellow panelists included Emma Caterine of Red Umbrella Project , adult film actress and writer Stoya, and CEO and owner of Hookonline Hawk Kinkaid. You can watch the panel here :

Our panel dealt with sex workers and clients adapting to new digital technology and the hardships or progress gained by moving into a digital space. We took questions both from the live audience and from twitter.
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N’jaila on TBGWT Podcasts

I was a guest on the always hilarious The Black Guy Who Tips Podcast, hosted by Rod and Karen. I had such a fun time talking about dongs, packing cocks and sitting at the dojo of the net troll master. If there is one thing you will learn from this podcast is “Don’t start none, won’t be none”, fortunately for the listening audience a very unlucky trio of dudebros learns that lesson the hard way.

What’s Up with BlasianBytch.com?

Where have you been? Are you coming back? Did you quit on us?

NO

I know its been weeks since I did a proper week of blogging but there was good reason. For one , I joined my new company during one of their very busy periods while my commute to work isn’t so bad, the traffic coming back hom can turn my 45 min commute into a 3 hour monster. On top of that , I’ve lost my little room of my own. Which is sad, because I love living with my goddaughter, but it a bit of wonderful considering that I’ve gained an APARTMENT. Continue reading “What’s Up with BlasianBytch.com?”

N’jaila LIVE on the Alter Negro Sho “No Valentine’s”

The Non-Productive Network’s “Alter Negro Sho” presents ‘No-Valentine’s Day’ The newest episode of ANS will talk about life, love, relationships and Sex. Definitely Sex.

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2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz is a Sexy Sagittarius

cross posted on LukeisBack.com

Sexy Sagittarius and 2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz celebrated her birthday on Dec 11^th with two parties in LA. She brought the party to the east coast to celebrate with fellow Pets and fans alike at the posh penthouse lounge Sky Room in Manhattan. Continue reading “2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz is a Sexy Sagittarius”

J.T Tran- Asian Pick Up Artist Explains His Art Part 3

continued from parts one and two .

J.T comes clean about “negging” , White girls and what’s his end game.

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Exxxotica NJ Day 3 and What I learned

Day three of Exxxotica had me completely exhausted and I was so lucky to have funny man Ryan O’Regan on hand to help me with interviews. This was really his day to shine he interviewed Lisa Ann, Sunny Lane, Lupe Fuentes and so many more people. It was like he was born to interview porn stars! Continue reading “Exxxotica NJ Day 3 and What I learned”

N’jaila on the G Spot pt 2

Here is part two of my interview where I get to talk about what I know the best, orgasms, vibrators and how to have the best sex of your life!

I hope you join Gspotclique.com, they are actually doing a promotion in honor of moi if you buy a Lelo Liv from them not only will you get free shipping, but you’ll get 20% off! use the coupon code “blasianbytch” from now until Nov 1

Muaaaah,

Jaila

J.T Tran- The World Renowned Pick Up Artist pt 2

In the second part of our talk , J.T Tran really broke down and talked about what he teaches at the ABC’s of Attraction. I was surprised to find out that its not all about tagging the most bitches or collecting the most numbers.

The Asian Playboy is about more than getting the most mileage out of his genitals he’s about so much more…

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N’jaila on the G Spot

I got to do a wonderful interview with the ladies of the G Spot, they really got me to open up about growing up different, Asian Cocks and being a coed at Rutgers.