Many moons ago I got an interesting Ask in my tumblr. While this submission wasn’t actually a question so much as a person trying to BLOW MY MIND with their amazing logic. I thought I should share it.
“The porn industry is male dominated (made up primarily of male pornographers/film directors/producers/editors/casting directors) and is geared towards a straight male audience. Just because some women and some queer individuals consume pornographic content (much of which is becoming increasingly violent and aggressive, especially towards women) does not make it ‘feminist,’ or ‘ethical.'”
Yellow Face isn’t okay, not on stage, not on Halloween and not in film – and yes that includes porn. So if you are going to have any hand in creating a porn “parody” of smash hit show that has a fan favorite character who is Korean American, hiring a white actor taping his eyes back and smearing what looks like cheeto dust on his face is just not going to sit well with people.
Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. 😀 But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.
On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere. There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.
I know my posts have been slow lately, I’ve been trying to work as much as I can at my vanilla job because I’m moving. I was supposed to move to a town closer to my job to reduce my two and half hour commute but, sadly that isn’t going to be happening. Actually as I write this I’m not very sure where I’m moving all I know by tomorrow I have to not be where I’m leaving now. Continue reading “Saying Good-Bye to My Sweet Pussy”
While there are no reports that confirm that Lupe Fuentes has been arrested or a change in the status of her warning. Spanish language papers are reporting that her ex-husband , Pablo Lapiedra, who told police that Fuentes was in charge of recruiting the high school girls. Continue reading “Lil’ Lupe in BIG Trouble: Update”
Brittany Andrews was visiting family in Japan , where she featured danced for sometime, when the catastrophic 9.0 earthquake struck. Andrews was staying on the 47th floor of her Tokyo hotel She was trapped in the stairwell for hours while there were fires in separate parts of the building. She thankfully made it to safety.
Its now a tradition of mine to go to Exxxotica every year, sadly this is the first year I couldn’t convince any of my vanilla friends to come which was a bummer. My fabulously talented older brother did help me out again with the camera work. It will take me a few days to put all this new content online so bear with me. In the meantime, I can at least tell you what a blast I had.
In honor of my favorite time of year, and let’s face it every fatty’s favorite time of year,
I found two porns that fit the mood. Now I’m usually not all that big on porn with chicks in it; every vagina looks like the sloppy blind cousin of the brain bug from Starship Troopers to me. Just to have full disclosure I fast forwarded through the majority of genitals.
I reported before that funny lady Tina Kim was going to perform at the JRL Gay Film Awards…well that did not turn out as well as hoped. The show was a disaster and Kim wasn’t allowed to perform and worst yet wasn’t paid!
So my trip to an actual movie premier last week has got me thinking about films. I’ve taken a shit ton of classes on film, media theory and screen writing and all it really has amounted to was the worlds most impressive Netflix queue. After talking with the wonderfully quirky Brittany Andrews about porn from a filmmaker’s perspective I started thinking about trying to review some porn/ erotica films that push the envelope and or deserve a little shine.
I spent a few hours with Miss Brittany Andrews and discovered you really only need 5 minutes to fall in love with this woman. My full interview with her will be posted soon, in the meantime enjoy her talk about her film These Showers Can Talk.
The highly successful adult entertainment expo Exxxotica will be making it 3rd stop in Edison, NJ Nov. 5-7. J. Handy, Director of Victory Tradeshow Management announced yesterday that for the first time ever all ladies will be admitted free and have access to the VIP room at Exxxotica NY
This is a response to Justin Long’s Op-Ed on Luke is Back.
Justin Long Takes a Stand
After reading Justin Long’s frank and open op-ed, I had many questions -Why didn’t this happen already? Will others follow? Will there be a backlash? One thing I never questioned was the frustration and anger behind his choice or my support of it.
The designation of substandard “otherness” has always been imposed on black bodies; the same script has titillated the American public since Birth of a Nation. Even as more racial and ethnic groups enter the gamut they are still weighed on the white vs. black scale. You see it everywhere, politics, entertainment and most openly the sex industry.
I would like to say that I’m 100% for everyone getting the opportunity to be depicted as sensual and whole beings. I support everyone fucking. Most of the erotica I write is categorized as interracial. My support of Justin Long’s choice is not about my own issues with race mixing. I will admit that I am not a porn actress; and actually don’t consume a great deal of heterosexual porn. I am, however, an exotic dancer as well as a journalist who writes and reads a great deal about sex, gender and media. I’m also a mixed race Black woman. Continue reading “Justin Long Takes a Stand, by Sitting Out on I/R Porn”