Panel – Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

I have the honor of being a part of panel discussion on a topic very important to me and many other sex workers – Sexuality and Censorship Online. The title of the panel discussion is:

Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

We’ll be discussing how sexism, misogyny, and racism are built into the biases of our digital world, and how they affect our conversations around sexuality.

WHERE:

WHEN: Thursday August 16th

TIME: Arrive at 6.30pm for 7.00pm start

Tickets can be purchased HERE

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You Knew This Day Would Come, Get Ready for Hamiltoe

hamilton-900x506 — Like this but with fucking.

Unless you’ve lived under a rock or just awoke from a sitcom coma you fell into January 2015 you’ve heard of Lin-Manuel Miranda’s Hamilton. The surprise broadway sensation based on a mix tape inspired by Ron Chernow’s biography of Alexander Hamilton recently won 11 Tony’s, a Pulitzer and a Grammy. Since we live in a the darkest timeline anything getting this much media buzz gets a porn “parody” treatment. Continue reading “You Knew This Day Would Come, Get Ready for Hamiltoe”

TWiB After Dark Returns with a BANG!

I’m so happy that I’ll be back on track with my podcast TWiB After Dark! Last week I recorded the first episode of 2016 and I think we started the year off with a bang , well not so much an real bang. I actually spent the first episode singing the ballad of my un-fucked vagina. Sad puss aside I’m very happy with the line up I have for the first guest this year. I’ve had folks asking me to have him on since last year but – now its going to happen!

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N’jaila’s Mailbag: Is Porn Sexist?

Many moons ago I got an interesting Ask in my tumblr. While this submission wasn’t actually a question so much as a person trying to BLOW MY MIND with their amazing logic. I thought I should share it.

“The porn industry is male dominated (made up primarily of male pornographers/film directors/producers/editors/casting directors) and is geared towards a straight male audience. Just because some women and some queer individuals consume pornographic content (much of which is becoming increasingly violent and aggressive, especially towards women) does not make it ‘feminist,’ or ‘ethical.'”

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Yellowface and Asian America’s Porn Problem

Yellow Face isn’t okay, not on stage, not on Halloween and not in film – and yes that includes porn. So if you are going to have any hand in creating a porn “parody” of smash hit show that has a fan favorite character who is Korean American, hiring a white actor taping his eyes back and smearing what looks like cheeto dust on his face is just not going to sit well with people.

People will be upset because it’s racist mockery of Asian features and if there’s one group that doesn’t have options when it comes to porn its Asian Americans. Continue reading “Yellowface and Asian America’s Porn Problem”

Exxxotica is Coming! Exxxotica is Coming!

Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. 😀 But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.

On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere. There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.

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Sybarite Awards Takes Webster Hall By the Balls, and it likes it!

April 14- New York City- Its time again to recognize the best and most erotic in the fetish and adult swing community and Ms Lola Bastinado of HedoOnline.com and mastermind of the Sybarite Awards did not disappoint. The show highlighted the alternative side of the alternative lifestyle, and was held at the perfect venue Manhattan’s iconic Webster Hall.

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Sinnamon Love Celebrates Her Birthday With Happy Endings AND MY CAMERA IS RACIST.

Porn legend Sinnamon Love celebrated her 38th birthday – yes you read that correctly 38th birthday – on Dec 30th. I was delighted to be invited to cover the event and Sinnamon Love showed up more bubbly and adorable than most girls at wish they did on their Sweet 16. The pint sized domme and adult movie legend was joined not only by porn starlets but also poets , authors and a iconic DJ.

Revelers from all over the country partied with the birthday girl at the aptly named Happy Ending Lounge in Chinatown and got down to DJ Tony Touch working his magic on the 1 and 2’s. Continue reading “Sinnamon Love Celebrates Her Birthday With Happy Endings AND MY CAMERA IS RACIST.”

Erotica UK 2011 – Special Field Report

Dance Seduction

Today I have something very special! A guest post from one of my biggest supporters and virtual Oppas! Paul Oppa was lucky enough to attend Erotica 2011 in London, England and sent in this lovely report with the help of BBW starlet Busty Cookie , who won the UKAP Award for 2011 best series The G Team Tvx/Freddiesworld.

The US may have Exxxotica, but earlier this month Erotica 2011 took place at Olympia, London. It billed itself as the biggest adult lifestyle event in Europe, with a particular focus on dance this year. Taking place over 3 days from Friday 18th to Sunday 20th November, there were more than 300 exhibitors in addition to the dance stages.

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Nerd Porn, Are We Pwning Ourselves?

This month adult stars Misti Stone and Alana Evans are launching their gamecentric cam site to coincide with the launch of the much anticipated Gears of War 3. According the to the press release the site will “the website will eventually host every gaming party, as well as provide in-depth profiles of each Porn Star Gamer Girl, video game reviews done by Evans and Dawn and provide plus clips and photos from previous Gamer Girl sessions.” Sounds great for every fan of both porn and games (a vien diagram would just be one circle fyi). But what about female game enthusiast?

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Exxxotica NJ Comes Back for Fourth Year!

Edison, NJ, – Third time’s a charm but it looks like Exxxotica NJ is going to make its senior effort even more extravagant and exciting than before, controversy not withstanding. If there’s one thing that Exxxotica NJ is known for its kicking up controversy.

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PETA PORN???

khloe_kardashian — from Peta.org

Oh PETA, you are the Khardsians of non profit organizations. What won’t you do for attention? You’ve already proven you aren’t above, fat-shaming, racism, antisemitism and time tested sexism to get people to care about animals.

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Kelly Shibari Talks World Cup Bukkake Event!

I received a few tweets and emails for more updates on Japanese American Plump Porn Princess Kelly Shibari and her blow bang extravaganza. Kelly has just posted this vid (where she looks super cute) telling everyone the details.

If you want to participate all the details are on her site HERE.

Complex Mag post its 100 Hottest Porn Stars (right now) , Fans Cry Foul.

Complex.com, which prides itself on being “ premier online destination for the most influential 20-something male consumers” posted the list that included 25 LA Direct models and many lesser-known names. While their way of compiling the list is still very much shrouded in mystery fans and perfromers took to the comment section to voice their concerns about the porn industry, namely racism. Continue reading “Complex Mag post its 100 Hottest Porn Stars (right now) , Fans Cry Foul.”

Girls Watch Porn Too, and I’m not Joking!

This is from a humor site, but are people laughing because they don’t know this is true?

I don’t know why men think women do not watch porn, I don’t know why women ask other women if they watch porn ( like they’re the only ones that do). Let’s face it ladies, if you are peeking at Redtube there’s a hella good chance that all your ladies friends do as well. Hell they’re even talking about watching porn on Oprah.com! Continue reading “Girls Watch Porn Too, and I’m not Joking!”

Party Like a Porn Star in Miami-Help Kimora Klein

I’ve written about a great Blasian Deep Throat Princess Kimora Klein and her very serious car crash which she’s now recovering from. Kimora has been recovering at home after spending several weeks in intensive car and rehabilitation. Some of her very sexy porn star friends are hosting a benefit event for her in Miami.

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Lil’ Lupe in BIG Trouble: Update

While there are no reports that confirm that Lupe Fuentes has been arrested or a change in the status of her warning. Spanish language papers are reporting that her ex-husband , Pablo Lapiedra, who told police that Fuentes was in charge of recruiting the high school girls. Continue reading “Lil’ Lupe in BIG Trouble: Update”

Shelly Lubben: Crouching LIAR, Public RACIST

Anti-Porn Crusader Shelly Lubben’s Anti-Asian Rant

The Rebel Profit has more in common with David Duke than Jesus. Watch around the 11:40 mark to hear her tell the story about “Crazy Chinaman” whose genitals are too small to use condoms. She even does the mock accent.

The Devil And Shelley Lubben – episode 1 from Michael Whiteacre on Vimeo.

Hey Shelly, THAT’S RACIST!

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Exclusive Interview with AVN Award Nominee Tabitha Stevens

Tabitha Stevens and Orona Stevens Productions are nominated for 17 AVN Awards at tonights AVN Awards. 10 of those nominations are for the psychological porn thriller “Sanatorium”.

I had a chat with Tabitha Stevens about working on a project that so closely mirrored her life.

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2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz is a Sexy Sagittarius

cross posted on LukeisBack.com

Sexy Sagittarius and 2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz celebrated her birthday on Dec 11^th with two parties in LA. She brought the party to the east coast to celebrate with fellow Pets and fans alike at the posh penthouse lounge Sky Room in Manhattan. Continue reading “2011 Penthouse Pet of the year Nikki Benz is a Sexy Sagittarius”