Category: sex positive

Come see me at Exxxotica NJ!

Exxxotica Expo returns for its 12th year and the New Jersey Expo center will be filled with glitter and the newest self-fuck devices. It’s a magical weekend when the least sexy state turns up the heat and airs out its junk – like sexily, not like in a yeasty way. I would like to say it feels like I was covering the first show for my college paper yesterday, but I can’t fathom that it’s been over a decade. Youth sure did prove more fleeting than I anticipated. You know what else is fleeting? TICKETS! Get yours before they sell out!

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Off Market Zombie Pussy and Other Updates

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I had the pleasure of being interviewed on The Inner Hoe Uprising Podcast as a part of their series on sex workers. If you ever wanted a comprehensive rundown of my hoe-story this is the podcast for you! We talk about a lot of the realities of being big, Blasian and surviving thanks to erotic labor. I also fact check the Jennifer Lopez/ Constance Wu ripped from the headlines crime dramedy HUSTLERS. The episode is available on all the platforms, give it a listen and support my fellow black femme content creators.

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Decriminalizing Sex Work Webinar – GET INVOLVED

Tuesday, June 25 – 3 PM (ET) / Noon (PT)

REGISTER HERE bit.ly/DecrimSexWorkWebinar

Speakers:

Presented by the Sex Worker Rights Working Group of the National Lawyers Guild (NLG) Queer Caucus, this webinar will include a primer on the sex work, an explanation of the current and proposed policies that impact them, and the NLG’s current and potential positions on these policies. While it’s targeted towards NLG members, this webinar is appropriate for anyone who wants to learn more about sex worker rights!

At last year’s #Law4thePeople Convention, NLG members voted to pass a resolution condemning the anti-sex worker legislation SESTA/FOSTA. During the process, we learned that many NLG members had questions about sex worker rights and impending legislation. Now that New York and Washington, DC have introduced legislation to decriminalize sex work, it’s crucial that NLG members across the country have a basic understanding of the issue and learn how to get involved.

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Panel – Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online

I have the honor of being a part of panel discussion on a topic very important to me and many other sex workers – Sexuality and Censorship Online.  The title of the panel discussion is:

Patriarchy in the Algorithms – Sexuality and Censorship Online
We’ll be discussing how sexism, misogyny, and racism are built into the biases of our digital world, and how they affect our conversations around sexuality.  
WHERE:
WHEN: Thursday August 16th
TIME: Arrive at 6.30pm for 7.00pm start
Tickets can be purchased HERE

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Housing Emergency Fundraiser for a Disabled Trans Woman of Color

The New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA) is raising funds for a trans worker of color in New Jersey who has recently lost her leg from infection and is facing economic hardship. We are trying to raise funds to save her home and provide a secure place for her to continue to recover. NJRUA has raised 25% of their goal and while we have saved her from eviction she still need assistance with a large debt.  I hope that everyone can donate or share the fundraiser.

 

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Mama’s Got a Brand New Podcast

The dawn of a new era, the Cuntcast Podcast launches with its first full episode with host N’Jaila Rhee and co-host Aaron Rand Freeman. We introduce our new sex and pop culture podcast the only way we know how: by Canceling WET Lube for sponsoring FuckBoi Final Boss James Deen, calling out the mental gymnastics of fat-shamers, and poking holes in the “contraceptive” Jiftip.

You can subscribe to new episodes on Google Play or check out our website – www.Cuntcastpodcast.com.

N’jaila Joins The Unapologet!cs Podcast for Kinky Fun

What’s good? Miss me? I missed me, too!

I’ve got back to my content producing sexual self and dropped by the Unapologet!cs for their Kink Positive series.  I joined hosts Dani and Animaine and talked about my favorite kinks and gave advice to those starting to explore BDSM and other fetishes. I also shared my complete aversion to the most common fetish, feet.

N’jaila Rhee Coming to a TV Near You!

UnSlut: A Documentary Film is this 2016 winner in PBS’s To The Contrary All About Women & Girls Film Festival.  The film explores modern society’s treatment of women with a focus on sexual bullying aka “Slut Shaming”.  Using interviews with survivors, family members, professors, authors , doctors and volunteers dissect and define the phenomenon of the “slut”.

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Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire

Gigolos-Shirtless-SHOWTIMEFor six seasons on Showtimes Gigolos, Garren James has let us into the world of male escorts that specialize in offering companionship to women. In a world of constant online harassment and unsolicited dick pics destroying our phones like an angry genital tsunami, James has managed to get women to pay for male attention.  I got to speak with James about how Cowboys4Angels came to be and how it works.  Continue reading “Gigolo 2.0: How Garren James Built A Dudes for Ladies Escort Empire”

TWiB After Dark Returns with a BANG!

Untitled-3573I’m so happy that I’ll be back on track with my podcast TWiB After Dark!  Last week I recorded the first episode of 2016 and I think we started the year off with a bang , well not so much an real bang. I actually spent the first episode singing the ballad of my un-fucked vagina.  Sad puss aside I’m very happy with the line up I have for the first  guest this year.  I’ve had folks asking me to have him on since last year but – now its going to happen!

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Twitter Has Made It Impossible to Ignore the Reality of Sex Work

ea8843aa135b22194ec27410e02f565bLux Alptraum wrote this great piece on how Twitter has impacted the visibility of Sex Workers and how that affects us.  The article also Charlotte Shane and Anlina Sheng of the Winnipeg Working Group for Sex Workers’ Rights .   You can read the article

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BLACK TRANS SEX WORKER LIVES MATTER

black-trans-SW-lives-matterWhen I wrote about the Daniel Holtzclaw case for TitsandSass  I was happy the piece was generally well received, but sadly there have been ignorant people who felt that including instances where Black trans women were violated somehow detracted from the article. Those people are assholes.

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Daniel Holtzclaw, Black Women and the Myth of Police Protection

Daniel Holtzclaw is hopefully going to spend the rest of his natural life in jail after targeting low-income black women. happybirthdayrapistpieceofshitIf you listen to my podcast After Dark or follow me on twitter, you’ve heard about the case of serial rapist former police Oklahoma City officer Daniel Holtzclaw.  I had the honor of expressing some of the many complicated feelings stirred up by this trial, its coverage and what it means for Black sex workers. Please head over to TitsandSass to read it :

http://titsandsass.com/daniel-holtzclaw-black-women-and-the-myth-of-police-protection/

 

New (ish) Interviews with ME!

11076236_10202626860872659_7303463830415808914_nSo its been awhile. I’ve come down with a very bad case of “Everything I Write is Poops” but working on that to bring you guy more delicious content.  If you have missed me I wanted to give you a chance to listen or read to some of my latest interviews.

I had the honor of being interviewed by the Asian American Writers Workshop’s  Ester Wang, talking about everything from race to sex work and my love of New York City.

If you missed my February appearance on the awesome Sex Love Joy podcast hosted by Anaín Bjorkquist  now is the time to get some more N’jaila in your ear.
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TWIB AFTER DARK GIVEAWAY – Flash Brown Cock!

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I’ll be welcoming Flash Brown (@flashbrownxxx) as a guest on Twib After Dark on Feb. 25th and to celebrate one of my favorite performers we are giving away one of his toys! Flash Brown4

Molded from his impressive 11.5 inch penis, these toys come in several varieties, squirting vibrating and always filling.Flash Brown Vibrator

 

Flash Brown hails from Memphis, and played professional basketball overseas and semi-pro basketball in the United States before entering the world of adult entertainment. His impressive 11.5” cock has made him a hit with fans around the globe, earning him an XBIZ Best Male Newcomer Award and several Urban X Awards. Nominations from AVN Awards, The Sex Awards, and XRCO prove his on-screen prowess.

If you have any questions for Flash please leave them in the comments below if you wish to enter the give away you can do it right here:

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White Washing the Sex Field & 50 episodes of #TWiBAfterDark

50th-TwoToneCupcakeI’m so excited that TWiB After Dark has made it through 50 amazing episodes! Thank you all so much for listening and supporting. We welcomed two very special guests for this episode both members of the Women of Color Sexual Health Network , Aida Manduley (@neuronbomb) and Tamara Williams Van Horn (@TamVanHorn).

 

We talked about the new UK porn bans, 3-D printed sex toys, and had an in depth discussion on supporting and boosting the voices of women of color in the sexual heath field and how our absence directly impacts society’s view on human sexuality.

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A Special TWIB After Dark

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This week I had the pleaser of co-hosting TWiB After Dark with the actress and TWIB contributor Pia Glenn!  Let me tell ya’ll about Pia, she’s awesome she is proof that we are all made of stars. ( Of course me and you are made of that trash planet from Transformers the Movie, she is made from a planet that’s all diamonds like that episode of Dr. Who)  She is genetically superior being who is gracing us with the chance to be in her presence.

Not only can you be aurally pleasured by Pia’s voice on this week’s After Dark we got to speak to some of the ladies of Everyday Whorephobia @_peech and @MeliMachiavelli.  I’m so happy I was able to talk with them about the murders of  and spread the word about their memorial fund.

Listen to After Dark #41: The Red Wedding

Black Women, Sex Work & Stigma #TjhishaAndAngelia

When I was interviewed for an article about Black sex workers last week,  it wasn’t the story of an actress and her white boyfriend that was on my mind. It was the murders of  and .

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“the bodies of Angelia Mangum, 19, and Tjhisha Ball, 18 were spotted on the side of a road around 1 a.m. yesterday. The bodies were reportedly bound with zip ties, naked and on top of one another. Read more at EBONY

[pullquote] Donate to the families of#TjhishaAndAngelia HERE [/pullquote]It wasn’t just the ghastly way they were discovered or the brutal way they were murdered it the reaction of civvies and the news media at large. Several news sources published their mug shots, identified them only as strippers in that demeaning tone that stopped just short of ‘they asked for it’. Continue reading “Black Women, Sex Work & Stigma #TjhishaAndAngelia”

Sex, Sex Work and the Web #TtW14

I had the distinct honor of being a panelist at this year’s Theorizing the Web conference which too place in Brooklyn NY April 25& 26th. My panel “Sex Work and the Web, was moderated by the amazing Melissa Gira Grant, author of Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work  . My fellow panelists included Emma Caterine of Red Umbrella Project , adult film actress and writer Stoya,  and CEO and owner of Hookonline Hawk Kinkaid. You can watch the panel here :

Our panel dealt with sex workers and clients adapting to new digital technology and the hardships or progress gained by moving into a digital space.  We took questions both from the live audience and from twitter.  
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