Not So Naked Thoughts on Exxxotica NJ 2012

A personal message from moi:

There is a widget in the sidebar for donations, and you can still donate in all of the regular ways.  Anyone who donates over $50 dollars will get 15 min cam date with ME!

If you want to know what these donations will go towards, mostly it will be for transportation. I also plan on making 2-3 short videos that will be dealing with Body Acceptance and Sexuality, Asian American Masculinity and Women of Color and Sexual Self Identity.

I want to conduct better interviews with better equipment. I’ve always been using a 40 dollar mic, and a tiny point and shoot HD cam which has been working but I want to step it up! I want to be able to do interviews on and off site with better lighting and a nicer background. I also would love to be able to podcast interviews and news stories.  I’m a journalist at heart and there’s no denying it.  I want to bring high quality content that will have the ability to better discuss important topics.

If you want to see some of the products that I would like for BlasianBytch.com check out my Audiovisual Wishlist on Amazon.

I also want to give my readers a chance to ask their favorite adult star a question so If you have a question you would like answered submit it and the name of the performer you want me to ask it to on NjailaRhee.com. Questions that are out right disrespectful will be ignored and for the love of all that is holy don’t ask me to show anyone your penis.



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Exxxotica is Coming! Exxxotica is Coming!

Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. 😀 But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.

On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo  will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere.  There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.

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Exxxotica NJ 2011: A whole new (dirty) show!

Something about this Expo makes me feel so small...

Exxxotica NJ is setting itself away from the pack of Adult business themed conventions by remembering to romance and titillate the ladies as well as put on a frist class show.  The event repeated its “Ladies Night” for the frist day, this time presenting the horny gals with male exotic dancers and a number of seminars focused on female sexual wellness and couple satisfaction.


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What’s Up with BlasianBytch.com?

Where have you been? Are you coming back? Did you quit on us?

NO

I know its been weeks since I did a proper week of blogging but there was good reason.  For one , I joined my new company during one of their very busy periods while my commute to work isn’t so bad, the traffic coming back hom can turn my 45 min commute into a 3 hour monster.  On top of that , I’ve lost my little room of my own. Which is sad, because I love living with my goddaughter, but it a bit of wonderful considering that I’ve gained an APARTMENT.   Continue reading “What’s Up with BlasianBytch.com?”

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Exxxotica NJ Day 3 and What I learned

Day three of Exxxotica had me completely exhausted and I was so lucky to have funny man Ryan O’Regan on hand to help me with interviews. This was really his day to shine he interviewed Lisa Ann, Sunny Lane, Lupe Fuentes and so many more people. It was like he was born to interview porn stars! Continue reading “Exxxotica NJ Day 3 and What I learned”

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Exxxotica NJ Re-cap: The Girls , Cars and Stars! Day Two!

While I didn’t get to see my name “up in lights” I did get to see my name on the seminar schedule poster. My name was up there along with greats like Brittany Andrews, Sean Micheals, Nyomi Banks and many more. Continue reading “Exxxotica NJ Re-cap: The Girls , Cars and Stars! Day Two!”

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Exxxotica NJ Re-cap: The Girls , Cars and Stars! Day One

Its now a tradition of mine to go to Exxxotica every year, sadly this is the first year I couldn’t convince any of my vanilla friends to come which was a bummer.   My fabulously talented older brother did help me out again with the camera work.  It will take me a few days to put all this new content online so bear with me. In the meantime, I can at least tell you what a blast I had.

I also had the help of a very funny comedian Ryan O’Reagan who I met because I went to the first Exxxotica NJ.  He was such a fun guy and I figured I’d need some help getting used to being on the other side of the camera.  He did an awesome job. Continue reading “Exxxotica NJ Re-cap: The Girls , Cars and Stars! Day One”

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I’ll Be Tweeting from EXXXOTICA LIVE!

Couldn’t make it to the show? No worries I’ll be tweeting and twitpic-ing ( not sure if that last one gets to be a verb) all the stars , products and fun as it happens.  So if you don’t already, click the picture below and follow me on twitter to get in on all the fun!

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WE DID IT!

I would like to call your attention to the lovely blue box on your right, Oh yes you read that correctly. 104%.  As they say in Jersey “Yous guys fucking rule!”

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Tina Kim Gets the Last Laugh and other Updates

I reported before that funny lady Tina Kim was going to perform at the JRL Gay Film Awards…well that did not turn out as well as hoped.  The show was a disaster and Kim wasn’t allowed to perform and worst yet wasn’t paid!

You can read the details here and here. Continue reading “Tina Kim Gets the Last Laugh and other Updates”

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Going Home for the holidays!

So as I write this I’m packing a bag and getting ready to visit my mom for 추석 or Chuseok.  Its kinda like a Korean Thanksgiving sort of thing.

Seeing as my father is in France on business my mom is just using this as an excuse to get me to fly out, but I miss my Mom madly so I’ll play along.  I’ll be gone from today to the 28th. Don’t worry postings will still go up!

Now I must go find some songpyeon to bring to my mom.

Yummers!  Continue reading “Going Home for the holidays!”

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Porn with a Different Spin : The King of Wheelchair Porn

Just when you think you’ve seen every approach to market people having sex with each other, you come across something that really makes you think about the reason people choose to perform and produce porn in the first place.

When I went to Exxxotica New York last year I happened to meet a gentleman by the name of Lee.  A New York based producer and star of pornographic film.  While there were many men like him at the convention, he stuck out to many because in short, Lee is paralyzed and performs under the moniker Mr. Dick On Wheels Continue reading “Porn with a Different Spin : The King of Wheelchair Porn”

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Toy Review: The Blow Guard


One of the products that stuck out in my mind the most from Exxxotica NY ’09 was the Blow Guard. The toy was designed by a real dentist who was there to personally tell explain his product.

The display featured not just some examples of the product which is a flexible mouth piece that has a removable vibrating bullet. It also had a loop of adult movies that featured the Blow Guard and let me tell you they were a great selling point. I found myself gazing at the screen and sighing. All I could think was… I want that. I want some mind numbing satisfaction. So as soon as I got home from the convention I went searching for the Blow Guard at my local sex shops. Sadly I couldn’t find them in North Jersey but they are available for $27.99 plus shipping and handling on the Blow Guard website.

The blow guard works simply men put the blow guard on the top of their mouths and women on the bottom and then the fun begins.

This is advertised as a toy for couples, and I agree whole heartedly – don’t whip out the blow guard and think you can pull off being sexy. This isn’t something to whip out on a fling or a one night stand. I don’t think I would feel comfortable enough using this thing on anyone other than BooBear. You have to be on an level of extreme trust and comfort with your partner. I’m talking the kind of relationship where cum bubbles are something to giggle over and one queef won’t stop the show. If you two can just laugh at one another and get a little silly this toy it for you.

I say this because you will never know drool until you have a vibrating mechanism in your mouth. This is great because you won’t really need the little pouch of sex tart lube that comes with the Blow Guard. What a godsend that extra spit is! When I first tried the lube I ended up running to the bathroom to wash my mouth out. The lube is super sweet and just unnatural tasting. It was almost vomit inducing nasty. Save the lube for anal because it already tastes like ass.

As for the device itself its fun for anyone who isn’t shy about sloppy blow jobs. BooBear happens to have a lot in the girth department so I found there really wasn’t enough room in my mouth for him and the blow guard . Even opening my mouth as much as I could there was little room and with all the saliva the blow guard wasn’t staying in place. I was a little afraid it was going to slip out of place and BooBear was going to accidentally send it down my throat with one good thrust.

BooBear enjoyed the vibration of the Blow Guard which is POWERFUL, more so than most bullets. The size of the bullet is misleading as to just how powerful the vibration is. Unfortunately this powerful vibration makes you feel a weird sort of numbness. I can see where this would be great for girls that don’t like sucking cock, when it comes to BooBear I love it. The Blow Guard might give a boost to your partners enjoyment but takes almost all of it away from the giver. For the ladies who loathe giving oral this is a blessing, you can literally just sit there and kinda move a bit and get your guy off. For us deep throat queens it might be an issue.

When it comes to oral sex on a woman this is really where the Blow Guard shines, its a great for stimulating the clit and keeping the gnashing teeth of an over excited but not very orally skilled lover from killing the mood.

Final verdict: Better on clits than dicks and only for couples that can keep it real and kinky at the same time.

For more info check out the official site: BlowGuard.com

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I FINALLY GOT MY BLOW GUARD!!!

One of the products I was really excited about from Exxxotica NY was the Blow Guard, its a handy little gadget that is designed to pleasure men and women. My brother just called me to tell me mine finally arrived in the mail. 😀

Hopefully me and Boobear can get together soon and test it out. If all goes well I’m going to have to pick up a few more vibrating bullets next time I’m at Romantic Depot. :3

I also wanted to say thank you to everyone that has been sending me emails. Right now I don’t have any pictures to send you but I’m working on getting some. Don’t miss the chance to see me in NYC for Hell-O-Ween Havoc.

I’ll be posting more of my Works In Progress (WIP) once I type them up, I have a hour and a half commute and I write on the train, sometimes I get a little lazy with typing. If you are angry about the lack of new stories feel free to get on my ass about it!

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The Stars of Exxxotica NY 09

The stars made their way to the East Coast for Exxxotica NY. I got to get up close and personal with some of them and made some nice contacts. As for Mr. Marcus , I got my hug and a kiss on the cheek, that man smells like kept promises , sexy and redemption rolled into one. Being the awesome not-girlfriend I am, I made sure to visit Film Noir’s booth to say “what’s good” to Pinky, my not-boyfriends favorite porn star. I taught her how to say ” Hello” in Korean!!

here are some flix, click the thumbnails for larger views.
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My favorite Exxotica NY 09 hotties

Click on the thumbnail for a larger view. Here are some of my favorite ladies that provided entertainment on the floor

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Exxxotica NY Day 1


Here is the super awesome house photographer, my brother coveted his camera. I thought he was soooo cool! He shot Fashion Week.

Mistress T and a random audience member.

One of the exxxotica staff, I have a crush on him*shhhhh don’t tell*


No trade show would be complete with out sexy girls and the Exxxotica Hotties were very much acting the part. They seemed to honestly have a lot of fun just being there.


Yes that is a Dick instead of a bull, and yes I rode it, but my actually cock riding skills did not translate, I fell in like 2 seconds.

I have more pics but my phone is acting up. I’ll be back tomorrow, tweeting and getting interviews.

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I’ll be tweeting LIVE from Exxxotica NY!

Just moesy on over to my twitter page here

I’ll be tweeting about all the stars, hotties and of course Mr. Marcus. You guys can send me messages as well to ask people I meet as I meet them!

Follow me on Twitter to get in on the fun.

http://twitter.com/BlasianBytch

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