Dear Internet People- I Am Not Your Fetish Object

Dear People on the Internet,

I am on websites like Adultfriendfinder and Fetlife to explore my sexuality and fetishes- not to be your fetish object.  I know this might be a confusing concept for some of you out there, but women of color have their kinks and turn-ons as well.  While some women might be open to race play many are not.  I’m the latter.  Continue reading “Dear Internet People- I Am Not Your Fetish Object”

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Let’s Come Together, Team BLASIAN!

Blasians: We come in all shapes , size, colors and creeds

When I spoke at Banana 2 in February, someone asked what do you do when you can’t find  a community of like minded people. I told her that you had to build it because no one will do it for you – and when Hyphen quotes you saying something you bet your ass that you better follow through.

And so I did! CHECK IT OUT


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BLACK DAY BlasianBytch Style!

So today is Black Day. No this post has nothing to do with my gorgeous brown skin. Today is a day to celebrate being single!   There’s a “traditional” way to celebrate this day but I like to do it a little differently.

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When the Dust Clears

Since coming back from LA my life has been crazy, not as crazy of course as all the people affected by the earthquake and tsunami in Japan.  Admittedly so, I’ve spent the last few days glued to the internet and my cell phone looking for signs of life of my loved ones and friends who were in Japan.    Interestingly enough it was finally getting in contact with a man that the loathed that gave me a little bit of hope.

I had very few boyfriends in college, but the few I had made it a point to show me everything awful that can come from having a penis.   I’ll just call him Y.Y.  Well, Y.Y was the frist Japanese man I ever dated and I think I did so mostly because it cheesed my dad off.  I got my karmic retribution for that in the form of actually having to have a relationship with Y.Y.

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N’jaila Goes Bananas!

Wanna watch me talking about Asian dicks and porn star health insurance? 

I’m finally back from Banana 2 the event I’ve been talking about for months. I actually got back on Tuesday but thanks to some questionable sushi I was out of commission for a bit. Banana 2 took place in Studio City, Los Angeles and it was only my 2nd time in LA. The first time I spent about 3 hours in LA having Pho with Rick Lee.

I can say with no hyperbole that it was one of the proudest and most amazing experiences of my life. Not only did I get to hear men and women who I’ve respected and admired for years but got to meet and speak with them.

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Happy Lunar New Year!

It’s a Blasian Lunar New Year! I get to celebrate Lunar new year AND Black History Month.

In celebration of the year of the Rabbit I’m reviewing a toy my virtual Oppa gave me. The Hop ‘n Rabbit Stroker vibrator!
What caught my attention about this particular toy is its promise of stroking and oscillation while vibrating.  The box mad it sound like this thing could parallel park a bus at 60 mph, while writing your mother a love letter and delivering a litter of kittens.  This thing can get you off and navigate a space shuttle! It could walk in the rain and not get wet!

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Tina Kim Gets the Last Laugh and other Updates

I reported before that funny lady Tina Kim was going to perform at the JRL Gay Film Awards…well that did not turn out as well as hoped.  The show was a disaster and Kim wasn’t allowed to perform and worst yet wasn’t paid!

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Going Home for the holidays!

So as I write this I’m packing a bag and getting ready to visit my mom for 추석 or Chuseok.  Its kinda like a Korean Thanksgiving sort of thing.

Seeing as my father is in France on business my mom is just using this as an excuse to get me to fly out, but I miss my Mom madly so I’ll play along.  I’ll be gone from today to the 28th. Don’t worry postings will still go up!

Now I must go find some songpyeon to bring to my mom.

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Blasian Bytch on Dating Blasian

I’ve been asked to write a opinion or advice piece for Asian men on many occasions this is the first time I’ve taken a serious approach to the subject.

I know for many I might be a strange woman, I’m a Black identified woman who through fate and circumstance found myself involved with almost exclusively Asian men.   I don’t think this makes me any kind of expert on Asian Male Black Women relations but J.T the Asian Playboy asked me to write and so I shall.

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Exxotica NY Getting Down and Dirty Again in Jersey!

The highly successful adult entertainment expo Exxxotica will be making it 3rd stop in Edison, NJ  Nov. 5-7.   J. Handy, Director of Victory Tradeshow Management announced yesterday that for the first time ever all ladies will be admitted free and have access to the VIP room at Exxxotica NY

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Exclusive Interview: Ktown’s Peter Le Explains the “SituAsian”

The first time I saw Peter Le , I knew he had that “it” factor, its seems like the entire world has taken notice of “it”  and no one can get enough.   I was lucky enough to have another in depth interview with the Asian Adonis ,where he talks openly about the cast of Ktown, sexuality and the body that launched a million google image searches.
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So It Turns Out I WILL Be Watching the Asian Jersey Shore

Channel APA are reporting the cast of Tyrese’s Asian American reality show has been revealed!  and it seems my favorite naked muscle Asian is in the cast!!

Peter Le, the reason you have carpel tunnel.

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Save a Horse, Ride a Korean! : Ktown Cowboys

Ktown Cowboys

I know I’m late in the game, as I’m based on the east coast and wasn’t able to make it to the premiere of the movie but I was able to watch webisodes.  I’ll be honest I assumed that I was going to hate this.  It was getting buzz like that Yellow Fever movie that everyone seemed delighted by and I wanted to set on fire.  I’m happy to say that I find this series so far, engaging charming and funny.

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Calling Korean Americans!

I was contacted earlier in the week by the very friendly people at I am Korean American . They are collecting profiles of the Korean American community to show the variety , beauty and complexity that is being of Korean decent in America.

For obvious reason I choose not to put my face along with my site and make a profile (my parents don’t know I dance) but I encourage my Korean American readers to make profiles and share your stories.  There’s no way people can understand a peoples’ struggles and dreams without hearing what they have to say. Here is a great opportunity to tell the story ourselves, hollywood won’t.  This is a great opportunity to showcase all the unique facets of the people.

So please click and make a profile

Korean American? Click here!

I AM KOREAN AMERICAN is a project of Barrel, a brand and web consulting company in New York.

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Meet Jayla Starr!

I mentioned the fun , flirty , nubile Jayla Starr in an earlier post, I got the chance to sit down with her and have a pretty great in-depth interview with her. That will be posted later this week.  For now get to know her in this short video interview.  It was great to find out we had so much in common We both

  • Are Blasian
  • Love video-games

A woman after my own heart!

Meet Jayla Starr from N’jaila Rhee on Vimeo.

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Porn Stars Have Christmas Wishes Too!

One of my Bad-Ass Blasian Twitches is in need.

This is Jayla Starr you might know her from Ass Parade and numerous other quality adult sites. She is trying to get herself an Xbox360 elite. Her’s was cruelly stolen.  She has spent years making sure your fantasies come true its time to give back! As a way to say thank you Jayla. Thank you for taking that “D” like the pro you are.

I implore you all to Click on the little red box below and do your part. Ask not what your favorite porn star can do for you …but what you can do for your favorite porn star.

After all isn’t this what the holidays are all about?

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석명절 잘 보내시길바랍니다!!!

I hope everyone is spending this weekend with family. I’m spending it with my brother. I almost forgot about it. I have to admit, I miss my parents and I miss the yummy gooey treats my dad would bring home after work when I was little. I miss a lot of things.

I hope everyone enjoys their family becuase some of us are far away from them and pretty lonely.

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Red band THIRST Trailer (New Park Chan Wook movie)

I posted before about Park Chan Wook’s vampire movie Thirst , well really I just talked about how much I was wanted to ride Kang Ho Song face like Seabuscuit.

IGN released the red band version of the movie and it looks GOOD and very sexy. This should give me lots of inspiration :3

I hope that Twatlight lady watches it and commits seppuku out of shame.

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This old biddy can eat a DICK!

Texas lawmaker: Asians should change their names to make them ‘easier for Americans to deal with.’


On Tuesday, State Rep. Betty Brown (R) caused a firestorm during House testimony on voter identification legislation when she said that Asian-Americans should change their names because they’re too hard to pronounce:

Rather than everyone here having to learn Chinese — I understand it’s a rather difficult language — do you think that it would behoove you and your citizens to adopt a name that we could deal with more readily here?” Brown said.

Brown later told [Organization of Chinese Americans representative Ramey] Ko: “Can’t you see that this is something that would make it a lot easier for you and the people who are poll workers if you could adopt a name just for identification purposes that’s easier for Americans to deal with?”

Yesterday, Brown continued to resist calls to apologize. Her spokesman said that Democrats “want this to just be about race.”



Fuck this old ass 씨발년아! As if Asian Americans are the only group whose names are difficult to pronounce. First off, Chinese Americans surnames are usually pretty easy so she sounds extra ignorant. How can she not say this is about race? Norse names , African names and slavic names are pretty hard for man Joe Six Pack American to pronounce but she only talks about Asians.

Here’s the video-


N’jaila Rhee

( fuck you if you can’t pronounce it)

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Eat it Edward! Old boy director Park Chan Wook is making a vampire movie with the sexy ass Kang Ho Song !

( yeah I know, he’s eyes are kinda crooked but I always had a soft spot for him.)

He’s kinda a sexy John Everyman. I loves him in Sympathy for Mr. Vengence and I hope he does a kick ass job in this movie too! I have a serious thing for men of the cloth, that’s a horrible thing to say but it’s so true! Priest have always been sexy to me , so a vampire priest… I’m just gonna have to bring a change of panties <3

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