I FINALLY GOT MY BLOW GUARD!!!

One of the products I was really excited about from Exxxotica NY was the Blow Guard, its a handy little gadget that is designed to pleasure men and women. My brother just called me to tell me mine finally arrived in the mail. šŸ˜€

Hopefully me and Boobear can get together soon and test it out. If all goes well I’m going to have to pick up a few more vibrating bullets next time I’m at Romantic Depot. :3

I also wanted to say thank you to everyone that has been sending me emails. Right now I don’t have any pictures to send you but I’m working on getting some. Don’t miss the chance to see me in NYC for Hell-O-Ween Havoc.

I’ll be posting more of my Works In Progress (WIP) once I type them up, I have a hour and a half commute and I write on the train, sometimes I get a little lazy with typing. If you are angry about the lack of new stories feel free to get on my ass about it!

ģ„ėŖ…ģ ˆ ģž˜ ė³“ė‚“ģ‹œźøøė°”ėžė‹ˆė‹¤!!!

I hope everyone is spending this weekend with family. I’m spending it with my brother. I almost forgot about it. I have to admit, I miss my parents and I miss the yummy gooey treats my dad would bring home after work when I was little. I miss a lot of things.

I hope everyone enjoys their family becuase some of us are far away from them and pretty lonely.

The Stars of Exxxotica NY 09

The stars made their way to the East Coast for Exxxotica NY. I got to get up close and personal with some of them and made some nice contacts. As for Mr. Marcus , I got my hug and a kiss on the cheek, that man smells like kept promises , sexy and redemption rolled into one. Being the awesome not-girlfriend I am, I made sure to visit Film Noir’s booth to say “what’s good” to Pinky, my not-boyfriends favorite porn star. I taught her how to say ” Hello” in Korean!!

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Exxxotica NY Day 1


Here is the super awesome house photographer, my brother coveted his camera. I thought he was soooo cool! He shot Fashion Week.

Mistress T and a random audience member.

One of the exxxotica staff, I have a crush on him*shhhhh don’t tell*


No trade show would be complete with out sexy girls and the Exxxotica Hotties were very much acting the part. They seemed to honestly have a lot of fun just being there.


Yes that is a Dick instead of a bull, and yes I rode it, but my actually cock riding skills did not translate, I fell in like 2 seconds.

I have more pics but my phone is acting up. I’ll be back tomorrow, tweeting and getting interviews.

The Show Will go on! Exxxotica NY will be in full effect.



The trade show that was too hot for Secaucus NJ last year may be too hot for the Raritan center in Edison NJ. The township of Edison has made emergency amends to its ā€œRRRD Raritan River Revitalization Districtā€ code that the townships hopes will put a stop to the show.


On Sep. 10 the council declared the situation an emergency so the ordinance can take effect immediately will prohibit ā€œ the exhibition, demonstration, showing, distribution, solicitation or sale by any person of sexually oriented products of obscene materials in gatherings of 100 or more people.ā€


Mayor Jun Choi could not be reached for comment but, Jerry Barca , Edison spokesman stated ā€œThe mayor has stated that this type of event has no place in a family oriented town.ā€


The ordained also calls for the ban of exhibition of obscene materials 1000 feet from any place of public worship, school, and ā€œany municipal or county playground or place of public resort and recreation, or any hospital, childcare center or within 1000 feet of any residential zone.ā€


ā€œWe have been assured by the NJ Expo Center that they are outside of the affected area, ā€œ said J. Handy, Director of Victory Tradeshow Management, the company behind the expo in response to the ordinance. The show is scheduled to go on as planned.


The show debuted without incident last year in Edison after the Mayor of Secaucus blocked it due to a law that prohibitive illicit material to be exhibited where liquor is sold. Though the main focus of the convention is adult industry, many non-adult businesses set up booths during the convention. Last years event was home to artist, lawyers and even missionaries.


One such artist, Fangling Lee said last year she was disappointed with Mayor Choi, ā€œ [he] should be glad; the people that come here will be telling people about the town of Edison, to not welcome us is closed minded.ā€

Many famous names will be there including Ron Jeremy, 2 Live Crew and Rutgers alum Joanna Angel.

Today I’m a Sad Panda

Yesterday I was robbed, in broad daylight. I no longer have my cell phone, which had the last photos of my uncle who passed in July. I no longer have my I-pod, which wasn’t so bad because it was broken anyway. I also no longer have my Hello Kitty Bank card, but that’s okay because you can’t get blood from a stone. The most valuable thing I lost was peace of mind.

What also sucks is the camera I was going to use to cover Exxxotica NY is now being pawned.

As much as I hate to do this, if anyone out there can help me replace some of these items, via donation or just borrowing a video camera for the last weekend of Sept, feel free to contact me.

 

 

I’m going to EXXOTICA NY!!!


This is my first September that isn’t all about “Back to School” which is great because instead of buying hundred of dollars in textbooks I can spend it on what counts. Porn. Well more specifically an adult business expo. I went last year and had a blast.

I’m looking forward to seeing a lot of the talent that’s showing up as well as taking some of the seminars. Especially…

Oh la la

I hope you local guys come out and attend too. Tomorrow I’ll upload the pics I took last year. For more information on the show check out the expo here

Want to smell vagina but don’t want the hassel of a woman?? NOW YOU CAN


With VULVA original, the hilariously titled product can be purchased for about 1990 euros here. www.smellmeand.com ( get it?) . It seems like this is a not a cologne or a perfume, but a sexual aid. A gentleman or gentle lesbian can dab a drop on themselves to aid in “erotic fantasies”

I’m happy to hear this isn’t a new body scent trend, the last thing I want is to be walking around smelling pussy all day. I hope they don’t expand into dick scents. Can you imagine FORESKIN or maybe BALLS . That’s a world I don’t want to live in.

Sexy Dudes for a Healthy Future.

When you purchase a copy of the 2010 APM Calendar, 100% of the profits go to the Asian Pacific Health Care Venture APHCV – “a community health center that provides low cost medicine to the working poor and uninsured in over ten languages!”

This center provides much needed sexual health and Family planing services to the Asian American community. In 1995 and 2001 Asian American women had a higher percentage of STI infections than their white counterparts, ( and much higher than Asian American Men) yet there’s hardly any federally or state funded resources that focus on Asian American sexual health. The APHCV has low cost or free STD screenings (including HIV). This is a worthy cause AND you get a year of sexy dudes. What more could you want?

Check out the Calander’s Facebook for more info.

The Imperialist – snippet of a WIP

It was the way he touched her, that kept her coming back. Slow, deliberate and with complete authority over her body. She also knew her gruff Korean father would die to find the ģ¼ģ œ 강점기 was continuing between his daughter’s legs. A “j*p” her father would call him , and she would cringe as she would when ever he spit the word. Despite creating two bi racial children with a black woman, he thought of anything remotely Japanese being accepted by a Korean was treacherous.

Her lover was more than 30 years her senior. A professor at a university that her well to do suburban friends made fun of her for applying to.Yasuhito Higa, a Yale educated scholar in subjects that bored her to tears. She had met him at the school’s open house, the attraction was far from instant. He was pale ,lanky, balding, and almost bird like. Most girls her age would reject the type of man who owned a sensible amount of everything. A Marxist. A man on whom the concept of fashion was completely lost.

She had rejected his university and him at first. After her second year rotting away at a state school she found herself warming up to the idea of both. She found an excuse to open communication with him again in a school assignment. Phone calls , turned into lunch dates, and somewhere in between discussing the folly of capitalism and spinelessness of Democrats, his kind smile, and gentle laugh made her look past his features. She began to imagine the handsome man he must have been when he was her own age.

Lying in his bed , naked the thin summer sheets doing nothing to shield her from the cool gust of spring breeze. She feels giant next to him now, moments ago he was larger than the world. An all encompassing entity she could not stop or question. Stretching her limbs ….

I’m sick of emailing it to people, so here is it the Keni Styles interview…. blah

I imagine if some vengeful Greek god were to crack my head open so my wildest fantasies could be unleashed on earth, the man that would spring from my gushing wound would be Keni Styles. A beautiful man, with a beautiful cock -Tanned, ripped and tattooed he’s like the best part of every woman’s day dreams. Luckily for us girls, his chiseled visage can be seen gracing the small screen regularly. He’s not the next medical drama lothario , or MTV slow jam crooner, Keni Styles is an international porn star.

Thailand born and England raised he’s found himself a hot commodity in the world of adult entertainment. Styles has won accolades for his work not only in England but in the US as well. He was nominated for the 2009 AVN for ā€œBest Foreign Maleā€ actor.

Like many women I’ve never been much for porn movies, it has nothing to do with prudish nature or morality; obviously I spend most of my free time writing and reading smut. I never liked watching porn due to the lack of men I’d actually want to fuck being featured in them.

Cheesy dialogue, horrid acting and depressing shortage hot guys made mainstream straight porn seem ā€œfor boys only.ā€ Which is why I felt Styles was such a find. He’s an actor who wants to bring much needed passion and eroticism into adult movies. He brings Hugh Grant’s adorable boyish British charm, Colin Ferrel’s bad boy sexy and heaving helping of Will Demps’ “Gotdamn he’s fine” -to porn. Finally something for the ladies.

I recently had the opportunity to get school in the ins and outs of working in adult films. Not only did I get a crash Porn 101 course but also I found that Styles is more than a pretty face and a girthy phallus, he happens to be an actor’s actor. Keni Styles may be the first adult method actor. Stella Adler would be proud.

So what is it like to do adult films , like what’s a day in the life like?

It depends on the type.

There’s types?

There are two types of adult films Gonzo and Features

Gonzo is the main moneymaker, its realer, the sex, its less directed. You basically show up to set, meet the girl and do your thing. Gonzo in a way is easier to market.

Features, that’s what I love. I love acting and being a character , theses are my favorites. I really get into reading scripts and being what they need me to be. Personally I enjoy both. A lot of more senior performers pick one over the other. I think I can bridge the gap, deliver a great story and real sex.

What’s it like on set of a feature?

A feature day – you can have 14 hours on set and 20 mins of fucking. Generally it’s a very long day , lots of waiting around. Its not boring though, you can practice your lines, fuck, you know whatever.

You can fuck in-between?

Of course, going from blow job against a windowsill to fucking on the bed seems simple in the final products , but the crew needs to relight and dress the set for every change. It could be like a 40 min break. You can sit there or keep the sexual energy going. For me I keep my mind focused on the sex and the character that’s having sex. It helps me not to stop.

You seem really into the acting, do you think acting is as important as the sex in feature porn?

Porn is porn and film is film. I guess for me I like to bring the two together. Which might sound crazy but I think I can do it. See the features of the past would have these wooden characters and then just gonzo fucking. There was no emotional connection to the characters.

Not everyone is into gonzo fucking. If you make a story based film with high production value and quality acting it wouldn’t just be sleazy ass gaping porn. I think that’s why less women watch porn. We should make things appealing to them as well.

I defiantly feel if there are solid films that have intimate sex people will see it as more that just porn.

I read almost of all of your blog, you’ve done some pretty kinky stuff, is it difficult to film scene that involve stuff you are personally just not into?


I don’t see it as difficult, just a challenge as an actor. It’s no different than Brad Pitt getting into a role. You have to become the person you’re playing. You have to be so convincing that your dick is hard. You have to convince yourself. For example I’m not into pissing, but I can see how that taboo breaking can be a turn on.

There’s a vast range of things out there that a lot of guys won’t go out of their comfort zone and do. Being on set with a gorgeous woman , a whole set full of crew and your dick’s not hard and ready to fuck is the loneliest place in the world. I can see why some actors try to avoid that place.

I also read that you found your way into adult movies by being a male escort, maybe its just because I’m fresh out of college but I can’t imagine a woman having to pay for dick- how was that like? Am I wrong?

Well, it really came from the swinging scene. I was involved with cuckold couples.

Cuckold?

Couples who enjoy watching the wife fuck another man. Sometimes the husband likes to be degraded by his wife. It varies from couple to couple. In the UK its not usually racially motivated as in the states. When swinging event organizers set up, they would sometimes want a few guys would be employed to fuck wives while the husband watched. The cuckold scene is quite vast. Most of my clients were couples. There were a few single women client here and there, but for the most part I was hired for swinging and cuckold scene. I honestly think it’s the best training ground for porn.

Really? How so?

Well, it teaches you to find something beautiful in every woman and to really learn how to get pleasure from giving pleasure.

Speaking of training for porn what is your advice for guys that want to get in the adult business?

I always say if you really wanted to do porn, you’d be doing it.

Really? I would imagine that there’s certain standards a man has to live up to, no?

It’s not that hard to get into porn. Just like a boxer is only as good as his last fight, you’re only as good as your last scene. It all comes down to your scenes.

How is doing a scene different from recreational sex?

The smaller the difference the better actually, there should be a real sexual connection on screen. The sex for me is always getting better at work or at home. I just want to keep things real and hot. I try to keep them one and the same.

So here’s the hard question, and the one I’m sure a lot of the guys that read my blog want to know, how is it being an Asian man in porn?

You know, I’ve never faced racism in porn. I think if you’re already a victim before you open your mouth or go on set people are going to victimize you. I’ve never not been cast because of my race.

Do you feel a lot of pressure on you because you are one of the few straight Asian male Adult stars?

One of the things that kind of pisses me off is that other people are placing the responsibility to represent them on me. I’m not Asian men I’m Keni. That’s why I don’t have my own site right now, I don’t want to be marketed that way.

Oh, is that why your ā€œ my first Thai guyā€ site is down?

No, that was just something that didn’t work out.

What is it about racial marketing don’t you like?

I’m not in porn for that reason. I do it because I love acting and I love sex its also racism. I don’t give a shit if its ā€œpro Asian manā€ or ā€œanti Asian manā€ Its still capitalizing on racial stigmas.

Isn’t that just part of the game?

I’ve actually gotten hate mail because of this, I just ignore it.

There are others guys out there that are doing it out there. Hung Lo – have you heard of him?

Yeah, I’ve never seen his porn but I’ve been to his forums– scary, not a place for a blasian girl to hang out…or anyone with a vagina really.

Well he’s trying to capitalize on Asian men and white women. I don’t wish him bad in any way, I wish him well actually, but that does not impress me. Its not something I would watch simply because the race of the performers isn’t my main focus. I’ve performed with every type of girl and as long as the sex is hot that’s all that should matter.

At the end of the day it’s a business and [Hung Lo] is smart in his marketing, but I don’t want to go that route. So my choice is to represent me. I’m not against others who chose to do the opposite, but that’s not me.

Understandable, so what films do you have coming out soon?

You can look out for Pure distributed by Evil Angel it’s a modern day spin on a Japanese cult classic. I’m also in Miss Luciferā€˜s Malice in LaLa Land with Sasha Grey. They should both be out by Sept. 30th .

You seem to love acting so much, would you ever want to do a non-adult role? Like your recent co-star Sasha Grey?

Well, I like to think of all my features as films with sex in them, I was actually offered a role but the timing wasn’t right. Hopefully in the future I would love to.

Well, If I get into film school, you’ll be the first person I call to star in my student films, something tells me you’d make the casting couch experience memorable to say the least.

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For more Keni Styles check out his blog , vlog or follow him on Twitter.

August RUSH!

Hello My Lovelies!

I’m writing from unexpectedly sunny London I’m here to pay final respects to my uncle.

July was most definitely not my month. I’m happy to greet August, just two days in and everything is looking up. I got a great interview with the very sexy Keni Styles that I’ll be posting soon , new erotica and new forum!

I also want to say that all the gents in the tri-state area that never got a chance to see me dance live I’m officially coming out of retirement. I’m dusting off my clear Lucite heels and going back to the gym to get myself pole ready once again. Actually right before I retired I was donated this great pair of heels.

I guess now I can finally put them to good use.

Of course if you guys want to see more features on the forum, more coverage of adult entertainment, toys and events DONATE!

Trojan Vibrating Cock Ring – product review.


I grew up in a generation knowing that safe sex is the best sex, but there are many of my male counter parts that still need some convincing. Trojan condoms seemed to have made a solid effort to make condoms a little more fun, they packaged a condom with a vibrating cock ring.

I was excited to see that legitimate kink can now be bought at Target, but I couldn’t help but notice this product has its faults. The ring itself doesn’t actually do the job of a cock ring being super stretchy. I actually wore the thing as a bracelet for a few minutes.

I’m guessing this is supposed to be the fisher-price version of a cock-ring a “My First Cock Ring” which would explain its lax hold and weak vibration. I understand that the product is under 6 dollars and only is supposed to last 30 mins, but it barely vibrated at all. You’ll find yourself making an extra effort just trying to feel the thing.

What little vibration there is only really a thrill for the lady, the vibration translates poorly around the actual ring. My partner felt that it was more of a distraction than anything else. What was even more annoying was how the cock ring reacted to lube, it became a slippery mess.

I commend Trojan for trying to make safe sex fun, but this product fails as a vibrator and as a cock ring; considering the fact that this is a vibrating cock ring, that’s a pretty bad.

TL;DR : Tried the cock ring, not impressed.

Erotica Review : The Surrender

I just finished the short novel Surrender, by Toni Bently, I have to say I wasn’t that impressed. The book is theĀ intimateĀ memoir of a former Ballet dancer who finds God and her sense of self when she discovers anal sex.

Oh, you read that right, this woman found GOD through butt sex, “the lord works in mysterious ways” has never seemed so true.

What I think this story lacked was self awareness. Bentley seems to think she’s writing about her greatest love affair, but to the readers she seems over obsessed with a man that won’t even take her out to eat before pounding her arse with his “inch to big cock”. A cock so big is canĀ pierceĀ her “yang” and release years of anger and frustration she had for her father.

This book is pretty much only useful if you’ve never had anal sex. For all of us that have she leave us wondering why the only thing we find when take it up the bum is well… a cock in the butt.

What I would have liked to have read is an honest discription of what it feels like to have anal, orgasm and share with your partner. By raising anal sex to this sacared soul fixing meditation Bentley does the act a great disservice.