I’ll Be Speaking At CatalystCon East!

CatalystCon East '13

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Exxxotica NJ 2012: A Special Show for a Special State!

 

exxxotica gives backThis Exxxotica was rough, and not just because I had out-of-date malfunctioning equipment, a lung infection and serious case of stage fright – the entire state was fresh out of a state of emergency Post- Hurricane Sandy.

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Not So Naked Thoughts on Exxxotica NJ 2012

A personal message from moi:

There is a widget in the sidebar for donations, and you can still donate in all of the regular ways.  Anyone who donates over $50 dollars will get 15 min cam date with ME!

If you want to know what these donations will go towards, mostly it will be for transportation. I also plan on making 2-3 short videos that will be dealing with Body Acceptance and Sexuality, Asian American Masculinity and Women of Color and Sexual Self Identity.

I want to conduct better interviews with better equipment. I’ve always been using a 40 dollar mic, and a tiny point and shoot HD cam which has been working but I want to step it up! I want to be able to do interviews on and off site with better lighting and a nicer background. I also would love to be able to podcast interviews and news stories.  I’m a journalist at heart and there’s no denying it.  I want to bring high quality content that will have the ability to better discuss important topics.

If you want to see some of the products that I would like for BlasianBytch.com check out my Audiovisual Wishlist on Amazon.

I also want to give my readers a chance to ask their favorite adult star a question so If you have a question you would like answered submit it and the name of the performer you want me to ask it to on NjailaRhee.com. Questions that are out right disrespectful will be ignored and for the love of all that is holy don’t ask me to show anyone your penis.




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Exxxotica is Coming! Exxxotica is Coming!

Better pull out before the bitch gets pregnant. 😀 But seriously, Exxxotica is the best fucking thing to come to Jersey and its almost like Chrismas for me because unlike real Christmas it’s not mind-numbingly depressing when my Mom doesn’t call me.

On Nov 9-11 Exxxotica will return to Edison NJ as a celebration of sex and the adult industry. In its 5th year the expo  will continue its sexual carnival feel and female friendly atmosphere.  There will be more seminars directed towards civilians explaining kink, sexual health and breaking into the adult industry. There will be a full stage show along with merchant booths for romantic aides and all types of sexy wares.

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N’jaila’s Mail Box : Sex Worker Racism

 

While I was sick about 2 months ago someone left a pretty interesting comment on one of my toy reviews. It was pretty interesting so I’ll lend my two cents.

“Hey N’Jaila, I was wondering what is your take on racism in escort communities. Sorry this isn’t on topic relative to the review, but I’ve been trying to google it since my friend was talking to me about the “no black men” policy some escorts have. I even read a blog post from a white escort, and while I know women are entitled to do what they want with their bodies and to keep themselves safe, especially in that line of work, it just seems all kind of wrong to me. I mean, we don’t even need anti-miscegenation laws or the sometimes seen lynch mobs anymore b/c people self-select, and in very predictable ways, on and off line. In blatantly racist ways. It’s just something I’ve been thinking about b/c I’ve considered escort work and it’s difficult to navigate this troubling dynamic. And of course as a black escort I’m worried if I could even make a living. Cause the discrimination goes both ways, I’d imagine white escorts get the most business in spite of age and appearance at time.  Oh and I realize you may not know much about escort side of work, but it’d still like to hear based on your experience, especially as a woman of color.” Continue reading “N’jaila’s Mail Box : Sex Worker Racism”


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Congratulations To our 40 Pounds of Sex Winner!

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Kelly Shibari Announced as First BBW Fleshlight Girl

An Asian American frist you won’t be reading about on AngryAsianMan, Japanese American and BBW superstar Kelly Shibari has been announced as the newest “Fleshlight girl”.  While Kelly is the fourth Asian American porn starlet to have her mouth, vag and booty-hole molded and kept for prosperity, she is the frist BBW.  Continue reading “Kelly Shibari Announced as First BBW Fleshlight Girl”


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I was mentioned in The Pleasurists again!

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Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product contests, giveways, and sex toy reviews that were posted and submitted approximately between June 10th and June 24th. If you like what you see consider following the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates on further editions.

Did you miss edition 179? Read it all here. Do you have a review for edition 181? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday June 17th @ 11:59pm Pacific Time.

*Pleasurists also accepts photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.

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Toy Review – Lia Pleaser 2

This is the Lia Pleaser 2  it looks like a octopus leg.  There’s really no getting around it. If you are going to fuck yourself with the Lia Pleaser 2 you have to make peace with the fact  you and maybe a partner will be giving your vaggoo the once around with sea creature appendage.  Tentacles aren’t for unsuspecting Japanese teenagers anymore!  Continue reading “Toy Review – Lia Pleaser 2”


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Announcing the 40 Pounds of Sex GiveAway!

Because everyone has been so amazing with my recovery I wanted to give something back. I’m happy to annouce that Blasianbytch.com is teaming up with UK’s  sexy lingerie erotic and online retailer AnnSummers.com to give my readers a lovely treat.  40 pounds of Sex! or at least £40 of Foreplay essentials.  The package will include tantalizing edible body paint, exotic lubes and other delights. I’m giving away a gift bag of pleasure! All you have to do is leave a comment, send a tweet or anything else to earn points with the lovely little widget below.    The more you share the more entries in the contest and  which increases your chances of winning!  The contest will run for 30 days so have fun guys!

the gift bag includes 10 items including:
Lubes
vibrators
bondage gear
edible foreplay paints
erotic candles
adult games
adult books
a Rafflecopter giveaway

Feel free to share the contest with your friends, if they win maybe you’ll still get to use the prizes. 😛


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I’m still here

As some of you noticed posts were slow the last two months. I do apologize, I fell ill and then got a little more, and a more still.  Things were looking a bit bleak, luckily for me I’m no longer a freelancer with no health insurance – even though I sometimes still think like one. A few trips to the ER and some doctors offices and I can breath again, dance again and enjoy life.  Actually I’ve been going on a living spree as of late, but I haven’t forgotten about my writing and this blog. I’m still very committed to it.  New posts are coming, though they may be a bit dated and I’m always writing new things.

Thank you for your patience with me as I recovered and celebrated,

MUAAAAAH!

Jaila


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Toy Review: Wild Orgasm Pierced Flicker 2

This month’s toy is the Wild Orgasm Pierced Flicker 2, its an update of the more basic  Wild Orgams Wild Orchid Vibe.  This is not Charlotte’s rabbit, this is the rabbit that bend you over the sink in the dingy bathroom in the middle of a punk show.  Its won’t be gentle and you shouldn’t want it any other way.  This is a interesting toy with a lot going on with it so let me give you the skinny.  Continue reading “Toy Review: Wild Orgasm Pierced Flicker 2”


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Toy Review: Flexi Risque Ripple

It felt like it was fated to be when I got my test toy this month. You might remember that I gave up anal for Lent, while it was half in jest I kept my promise. It was a bit harder than I thought all of a sudden a  lover that had zero interest in experimenting with anal were downright begging for it.  I was a good girl and told him he had to wait.  I would not be letting Jesus down just for a few moments of hot illicit butthole pleasuring.  When I opened up this package to find a vibrating anal toy. Continue reading “Toy Review: Flexi Risque Ripple”


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Sybarite Awards Takes Webster Hall By the Balls, and it likes it!

April 14- New York City- Its time again to recognize the best and most erotic in the fetish and adult swing community and Ms Lola Bastinado of HedoOnline.com and mastermind of the Sybarite Awards did not disappoint.  The show highlighted the alternative side of the alternative lifestyle, and was held at the perfect venue Manhattan’s iconic Webster Hall.

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N’jaila Rhee’s Free Dirty Sex Show!

In celebration of getting my Star Wars Kinect xbox360 bundle I’ll be doing a came marathon!  To show my thanks to all those who supported me I’m going to have a special stream of the show LIVE! Right now. Just for those that read my blog.

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Toy Review: 10 Function Risque “G”

This is a review of the 10 Function Risque “G” by California Exotics.  I’m always looking for that G spot toy that is going to buzz me to glory, I’m going to say this upfront. The Risque “G” is not that toy.  I’m beginning to think that my gspot only works with organic material because this little guy did nada for it.  That’s not saying that his is a useless toy though. Continue reading “Toy Review: 10 Function Risque “G””


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Tickle My Tush: Mild to Wild Anal Play Adventures for Everybooty

I gave up three things for lent this year.  Usually I do this so I can have one thing that actually went without for 40 days if I fail on the other two.  This year I went for a challenge. I gave up chocolate, booze and anal sex.  Originally intended as my failsafe Anal has been kinda on my mind lately.  Not just because GayTube.com is bookmarked on my phone- I was recommended a pretty awesome book on doing the do up the donk. Dr. Sadie Allison’s Tickle My Tush: Mild to Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty.

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Toy Review: Chic Hide-a-Vibe

Today’s review Chic Hide-A-Vibe ,  it’s very basic vibrator that is designed to be able to be hidden in plain sight. This toy promises to blend into your vanity or desk or wherever you might keep your toiletries. This toy comes in either black with chrome detailing.  The Hide-a-Vibe comes in what looks like a nondescript perfume bottle or make-up brush case.

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Once again I was featured in the Pleasurists and wanted to share the rest of the edition with you. 

 

Courtesy of Ruffled Sheets*Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates.

Did you miss Pleasurists 167? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists 170? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday February 26th @ 11:59pm Pacific.

*Pleasurists recently started accepting photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here. Continue reading “”


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Get Your Politics off My Tits and Outta My Vag!

Wednesday marked the start of Black History Month. This is the one month that is set aside to uplift Americans who are part of the African Diaspora. Americans that disproportionately lack comprehensive health care and as a result are more likely to die from lack of screening for diseases.  This is why I was more than shocked to find out that Susan G Komen Foundation  picked yesterday to announce they they will cut funds to Planned Parenthood an organization that gave almost 170,000 free breast exams to women in lower income areas of the US, women who would otherwise have never been screened.


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