Dear Internet People- I Am Not Your Fetish Object

Dear People on the Internet,

I am on websites like Adultfriendfinder and Fetlife to explore my sexuality and fetishes- not to be your fetish object.  I know this might be a confusing concept for some of you out there, but women of color have their kinks and turn-ons as well.  While some women might be open to race play many are not.  I’m the latter.  Continue reading “Dear Internet People- I Am Not Your Fetish Object”

A room of one’s own: Redux

My New Bedroom!

I wrote earlier about a new writing space and changes coming to this site, well I’m pretty happy to say that many of the changes that In envisioned have come to fruition. Hell, some of the changes that have happend I never even saw coming.

I’m happy to report that I’m no longer quasi-homeless, sadly I still had to leave my kitty behind.  Continue reading “A room of one’s own: Redux”

My first Fetish Party: The Sybarite Awards

Fun for the Entire Leather Family!

 

Sexy Dancers
It was that kinda party.

During a torrential downpour in New York City a who’s who of the Adult and Fetish community gathered in an exclusive private penthouse. Hosted by Playboy TV and Spice Radio personality, Head Mistress of Hedoonline , Lola Bastinado .  International porn superstars, pent house pets and other celebrities attended the event.  This event was also my first fetish party.

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Let’s Come Together, Team BLASIAN!

Blasians: We come in all shapes , size, colors and creeds

When I spoke at Banana 2 in February, someone asked what do you do when you can’t find  a community of like minded people. I told her that you had to build it because no one will do it for you – and when Hyphen quotes you saying something you bet your ass that you better follow through.

And so I did! CHECK IT OUT

NEW FORUM

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Saying Good-Bye to My Sweet Pussy

My pussy in stockings (lol)

Hey there,

I know my posts have been slow lately, I’ve been trying to work as much as I can at my vanilla job because I’m moving.  I was supposed to move to a town closer to my job to reduce my two and half hour commute but, sadly that isn’t going to be happening. Actually as I write this I’m not very sure where I’m moving all I know by tomorrow I have to not be where I’m leaving now. Continue reading “Saying Good-Bye to My Sweet Pussy”

Toy Review: Pink Rotator

My first glass toy! I was really excited to try the Pink Rotator, not just because of the material its made out of but because its one of the first battery-free dildos I have and that makes me feel like I’m being all green and eco-friendly with my twat.

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BLACK DAY BlasianBytch Style!

So today is Black Day. No this post has nothing to do with my gorgeous brown skin. Today is a day to celebrate being single!   There’s a “traditional” way to celebrate this day but I like to do it a little differently.

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5 WTF Sex Toy Companies

I’ve tried a lot of products, from many companies but these are sites offer toys so bizarre and so disturbing that I’m shocked that any of the products that they offer are massed produced.  So sit back and share the horror with me.  If you’re a little squeamish you might as well check out now. Continue reading “5 WTF Sex Toy Companies”

Party Like a Porn Star in Miami-Help Kimora Klein

I’ve written about a great Blasian Deep Throat Princess Kimora Klein and her very serious car crash which she’s now recovering from.  Kimora has been recovering at home after spending several weeks in intensive car and rehabilitation. Some of her very sexy porn star friends are hosting a benefit event for her in  Miami.

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Do you think I’m the ULTIMATE BLOGGER?

Unfortunately this involves no cage match BUT a vote for me can see this blog’s resources expanded and that means more delicious content for you my beautiful readers.
Ultimate Blogger Search

If I win I’ll also get a weekly column on VibeVixen.com , which would give me the opportunity to talk about sex positive issues in a main stream publication.  So if you can please vote, tweet and share this on FaceBook.

Muaaah!
Jaila

Coming Clean

I’ve made some bad choices in my life. I’ve always been one to face things head frist. So when I received an email that my nagging ex was taking his revenge on me by uploading some of our special time onto WSHH. I just thought fuck it.  You’re not going to have power over me Jong!

So the video after the jump  Continue reading “Coming Clean”

Lil’ Lupe in BIG Trouble: Update

Lupe Fuentes and Mr.MarcusWhile there are no reports that confirm that Lupe Fuentes has been arrested or a change in the status of her warning.  Spanish language papers are reporting that her ex-husband , Pablo Lapiedra, who told police that Fuentes was in charge of recruiting the high school girls. Continue reading “Lil’ Lupe in BIG Trouble: Update”

Columbian Reporter: Ex Husband of Lupe Fuentes arrested on Child Pornography Charges

Wicked Pictures contract star “little” Lupe Fuentes may be in big trouble according to the Columbian Reporter. The star’s ex-husband ,Pablo Lapiedra,  was arrested in Spain on Thursday on child pornography charges.  Continue reading “Columbian Reporter: Ex Husband of Lupe Fuentes arrested on Child Pornography Charges”

Hall of Fame Porn Legend Brittany Andrews survives Japanese Quake, Prepares Documentary

Brittany Andrews was visiting family in Japan , where she featured danced for sometime, when the catastrophic 9.0 earthquake struck.  Andrews was staying on the 47th floor of her Tokyo hotel  She was  trapped in the stairwell for hours while there were fires in separate parts of the building.  She thankfully made it to safety.

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When the Dust Clears

Since coming back from LA my life has been crazy, not as crazy of course as all the people affected by the earthquake and tsunami in Japan.  Admittedly so, I’ve spent the last few days glued to the internet and my cell phone looking for signs of life of my loved ones and friends who were in Japan.    Interestingly enough it was finally getting in contact with a man that the loathed that gave me a little bit of hope.

I had very few boyfriends in college, but the few I had made it a point to show me everything awful that can come from having a penis.   I’ll just call him Y.Y.  Well, Y.Y was the frist Japanese man I ever dated and I think I did so mostly because it cheesed my dad off.  I got my karmic retribution for that in the form of actually having to have a relationship with Y.Y.

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N’jaila Goes Bananas!

[pullquote] Wanna watch me talking about Asian dicks and porn star health insurance? [/pullquote]I’m finally back from Banana 2 the event I’ve been talking about for months. I actually got back on Tuesday but thanks to some questionable sushi I was out of commission for a bit. Banana 2 took place in Studio City, Los Angeles and it was only my 2nd time in LA. The first time I spent about 3 hours in LA having Pho with Rick Lee.

I can say with no hyperbole that it was one of the proudest and most amazing experiences of my life. Not only did I get to hear men and women who I’ve respected and admired for years but got to meet and speak with them.

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A Good Day to be Black and Sexy?

Blasian Booty
This is my ass.

This is my ass.

For the last ten or so years every form of mass media has told me that this is not only the best way of measuring my worth as a Black woman, its also innately low class while being the only reason any man would put up with me.

My Black ass, a gift and a curse. Continue reading “A Good Day to be Black and Sexy?”

Shelly Lubben: Crouching LIAR, Public RACIST

Anti-Porn Crusader Shelly Lubben’s Anti-Asian Rant

The Rebel Profit has more in common with David Duke than Jesus. Watch around the 11:40 mark to hear her tell the story about “Crazy Chinaman” whose genitals are too small to use condoms.  She even does the mock accent.

The Devil And Shelley Lubben – episode 1 from Michael Whiteacre on Vimeo.

Hey Shelly, THAT’S RACIST!

Tell Shelly that this won’t be tolerated.   Continue reading “Shelly Lubben: Crouching LIAR, Public RACIST”

N’jaila LIVE on the Alter Negro Sho “No Valentine’s”

The Non-Productive Network’s “Alter Negro Sho” presents ‘No-Valentine’s Day’ The newest episode of ANS will talk about life, love, relationships and Sex. Definitely Sex.

I’ll be on at 9 pm EST you can listen in on www.non-productive.com Continue reading “N’jaila LIVE on the Alter Negro Sho “No Valentine’s””